what should i do?

In your case, that kind of difficulty is so called "feeling intervention". It just like the magnetic pole for a magnet. Same magnetic pole(+ & + or + & -) will definitely repels. This is not a theory but having said "nature". That is why it happened that such way in your present life. Mind to ask you, you are looking to be a winner in this case? If you say or your answer is YES. I totally and sincerely disagree with that. Because you are wasting your verve energy in this case and dealing with your unnecessary energy usage. You must look at advantages and not to choose either for winner or looser. You must go by motive. Actually what is your motive?. I mean you want she to be nice with you OR you want she to be get lost from your life? . Which one, you want this case to be. Every action there will be reaction, that's the fundamental of life. Human can change when talking about human attitude. THIS IS MY CONCLUSION You have to respect her as an elder person, no more complaining about her attitude towards you to your husband, as this practice will exacerbate the worse situation. Show your proud integrity manner to your husband about his auntie. And your husband will become your ally and finally your husband will settle this case with his auntie. And you just look for the good results to come true into your life. Now your fighting alone, and will never regain. Persuade your husband to be your ally and he will works for you, don't worry his auntie never lead in this case as she is alone. 2 - 1 = 1, the remaining 1 that will is yours.

It should not be you who says anything, this will only sometimes make things worse for you and your husband. I would try talking to your partner about the problem and see if he wouldn't mind talking to her about it. Sometimes it is better to let someone else intertwine with you problem than it would be for you to do it on your own. Sometimes people would rather listen to a relative than they would someone who they have a grudge against. Getting along with relatives can be hard. If your partner doesn't want to talk to her, try to avoid her. Sometimes this can be difficult too though. This is a really hard discussion to answer and sorry that i couldnt be more help.

This is a hard one...Bu thave you tried to talk to your partner about any of this? Maybe you should face her about this problem she has with you...I have has this kind of problem before with one of my husband sisters.. We never worked anything out we just stay away from each other and we don't speak at all to eachother..Even when we are at afamily thing. It at first seemed awkward but after 12 yrs of marriage it don't make a difference if we do talk or not. And it doesn't bother my hubby cause he hardly talks to her cause she is one that tries to cause trouble in the family....This is the only a cpl of things that I can try to tell you what to do...Good Luck..

well,if she doesn't directly say something to you,just let it go,and turn blind to it. or you can tell this to your husband,let him be the coordinator of you two,find out the misunderstanding between you two. be happy!