a friend who lies
By here2learn
@here2learn (210)
United States
August 29, 2007 7:20pm CST
I have a gorgeous friend who already has a boyfriend. She claims to love him and then claims to cheat on him too. The thing is is that she wants to be a playa. So even tho she has a man she claims to have several because she wants to fit in with those who do. First we believed her because she is attractive and funny and someone who guys would like. But she can't even keep her stories straight. Other people are beginning to talk about her and doubting that she even has the one boyfriend(who I know she has because I have met him)Now when she talks about her boy toys people laugh about it behind her back. SO my question is, is it better to let her live a lie or should I tell her that noone believes her lie. I don't want her to keep digging deeper but I also don't want her to be embarrased or mad at me.
1 response
@sr0415 (1140)
• Philippines
30 Aug 07
Hi here2learn! :) First of all, you have to know what being a true friend is. If you know that what you're about to do will make your friend become better, then do so. It also helps to have the point of view of people who are close to your friend. Will telling her make things ok?
On my part, I will tell your friend about what she's doing. She might even appreciate that someone is honest enough to tell her about the things going on around her. Just pray that she'll understand.
I wish the best for you!
Take care and God bless! \(",)_
