My hectic life.....
By tinamwhite
@tinamwhite (3252)
United States
August 30, 2007 9:36am CST
Since Mom passed on July 1 of this year...everything mhas been mso hectic...my transmission went out on my truck...i have asked my daughter and her children to move back home to be close to me....I have gone back to work doing the night shift so that my youngest son misses me the least amount of time....my household all seems to be on differenting schedules, yet we still make time for one another.....
Sometimes the choas gets to me but for the most part...I think we cope fairly well....
I have many friends here at myLot that I socialize with outside of herem but I can not always seem to make time for them the way that they feel that I should....for this I apologize and hope that they are understanding of my hectic lifestyle....
I dearly love many of you and do not want to make anyone feel neglected, but right now I am unable to spend much time online....
I know that many of you also have hectic lives and I hope that you understand mine....
Great big hugs to all of you.....
Tina
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9 responses
@holtinator (271)
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30 Aug 07
Im sad to hear that your mom passed and not everything is going too good for ya, nut its great to know that you have many people supporting you, on here and in RL.
If you need someone else to love and care for you im here!
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
30 Aug 07
The socializing here online also helped me
deal with the grieving over my moms loss as well.
@awonderfullife (2893)
• United States
4 Sep 07
Well honey, thanks so much for posting this. I appreciate you telling us all what you've been up to. Sometimes "real life" gets in the way with our "online life". I totally understand- it has happened to me. You've been through a lot this summer. All of your real friends- in real life and on Mylot- are there for you!
((hugs))
@ArsonCuff (3114)
• United States
30 Aug 07
Wow. I see posts like this and it seems mylot is a different world for some. I never talk to anyone on here. Good luck.
@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
31 Aug 07
I have noticed your absence but have not felt neglected. Like you said, many of us do have hectic lives and I know yours has been especially.
The lines of a song popped into my head just now..."When all you really do is the best you can, you did it (man) and that's something to be proud of" or something like that LOL!
Big hugs to you and prayers that things will settle down some for your sake at least.
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
2 Sep 07
Totally understandable Tina, I am in the same boat in terms of not being able to spend much of my time in mylot. Our visitors arrived last Saturday and have been busy with them and Thank God they have found a place already and are moving out today. I am up early having my coffee fix and trying to get in an hour before we head off. My son starts school in two days and have been trying to get him ready too. He has a slight cold so trying to get rid of it before he starts, don't want him spreading his germs on the first day!!!
Hugs my friend and not to worry, totally understand :)
@66jerseygirl (3877)
• United States
31 Aug 07
hey,tina,I certainly do understand about you not being online much. you do have so much going on and although i miss having you here,i know what it's like and you have my full support.take care and god bless
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
30 Aug 07
Hi Sweetie
I have to be honest that for a while I was wondering why you where not on much but when I read that got a job I understood why so do not worry as I would never give up on you I knew there was a reason for you not being here or on the other one
I do miss you though loads and you know that is straight from my Heart
Hugs to you
@webeishere (36313)
• United States
30 Aug 07
Let me say that from experience this is all a way of dealing with grief. When my mom passed away many years ago I was in just about the same boat. Things got changed around my household in many ways. After some therapy I found out it was my way of dealing with the grief. Someday things will get back to "normal" or this will become the new normal. Just live life for today as tomorrow never comes. Sorry about mom again. She is looking down on you all I am sure.
HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
@RendiRed75 (113)
• United States
30 Aug 07
With my being away, I didn't know about your mom. I first would like to say I'm so sorry that you lost her. I know it has to be hard. My gramma passed a little over a year ago, and my mother felt so lost.
You do what you have to do for you and your family right now. That's the most important thing Tina. Just remember, we're here if you need us.
