Well Hubby did it to me again!
By Lonelyme
@Lonelyme (43)
United States
August 31, 2007 10:45pm CST
Got a ride to the house from a friends house to pick up some beer from the house cause hubby wanted to stick around and drink with some friends. And in walks my hunk. Now I don't drink but hunk had some wine coolers I mean taste like Kool aid to me. But good ones. Any way I needed to come home to get hubby some more beer so he sent me over here with my hunk. We come here and get the beer and go back as soon as we get there hubby tells me I can either come straight back home with him or the hunk can bring me home later. So I decided to stay and just hang out it is 50/50 men and women. So I think it is okay to just hang out and smoke and drink a few wine coolers. Not meaning to stay any length of time thinking we will go back to my house soon. Well everyone knows my drunk. We all know what he will be doing he will come back here and take care of himself and go to sleep well really pass out. So we are all having a great time and land up going to another friends house and sit around nothing happens on the way there or on the way back but hunk makes me feel like I am on top of the world. But what I want to know would you tell your wife/husband that they can just hang out with a man/woman that is sexy enough to be a model and leave them there not knowing when or if they would come home that night or when? Me I don't think I would leave someone I really loved with a sexy man/woman! Anyway the hunk all but told me he was trying to find me a way out! He made it clear I would have a place with him anytime I wanted it! But I just wondering what you would do if you was in my shoes? I don't really know the hunk not that much but he makes me feel like I am a million when I am with him! Now the drunk I know him like a street map, I can tell you in a matter of a few minutes how he will be that day!What would you do if you had a chance to get out but wouldn't know for sure what would happen? Do you take the leap or do you stick with the drunk and what you know will be the same for the rest of your life?
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3 responses
@crazed_moma (1054)
• United States
1 Sep 07
Well I'd have to say he either trusts you, or is oblivious. I'm willing to bet you once felt about your drunk like you did your hunk at one point.
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@Lonelyme (43)
• United States
4 Sep 07
Yes at one time I did really love my drunk. But as the years past and lies were said I just got to where I stayed one reason out of not feeling like I could do any better. This isn't the first time my drunk has pushed me off on my hunk and I don't figure it will be the last time either. And it is really beginning to annoy me. At this point I don't like being told that I can hang out with good looking guys it isn't a good feeling and I don't think it has anything to do with trust. Thanks.
@crazed_moma (1054)
• United States
4 Sep 07
lol yes he must really trust you. :) Have you let him know you aren't happy with your relationship? Guys tend to be dumb about things like that.
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@Lonelyme (43)
• United States
5 Sep 07
Yes I have told him many times I need some happiness in my life too. He always tells me well if you lost weight maybe I could love you. Yep told him over and over again how unhappy I was about our marriage. He thinks I am so fat and ugly no man would want me.
@twils2 (1812)
• United States
2 Sep 07
Hi there LonelyMe, in a perfect world you could leave your husband and have more time to decide what it is that you really want. If I were in your shoes and I was really that unhappy with the current situation then I would probably give him a try. I mean it sounds like you dont have alot to lose. Just be careful, I dont like to see my friends getting hurt. :) All my best to you, Terry
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@Lonelyme (43)
• United States
4 Sep 07
Thanks Terry my friend I think I have made up my mind. My hunk would be my choice too but have to be asked and if I do I guess your right I need something better then this. My husband is never going to change and I can see that with my own eyes. And if my hunk said he would help me by letting me stay with him guess I might do that. Not sure at this point. Thanks Terry for your sound advice again. Your a great friend. Hugs!
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@beutfulmama6701 (1718)
• United States
1 Sep 07
at first i had no idea what it was that you were trying to write about.. but then after re reading it i sort of understand what it is you are saying.... first of all i would have no problem if my husband left me alone with a sexy man... it wouldnt mean abything at all to me that he wanted me to have a rondevo with this person it just meant that he loves and trusts me enough to be faithful and loyal...
It also sounds to me as if yu are confused about your marriage as in a sense that you are unhappy... if you were unhappy then you wouldnt have to ask the opions of others on what you should do.. if you LOVE your husband STAY With your husband, if you are falling out of love, or in a bad relatioship then that is something that you should condsider really putting some thought into... im not trying to come across mean or anything im just trying to give yu some advice...
do what you feel is right.. dont do what you think you should do in a sense Follow your heart... only it can guide you through
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