Which do you think is more important"friendship or love"?
By molly
@comeonmolly (828)
China
9 responses
@cliffcliff (1350)
• United States
6 Dec 07
Friendship is important an a daily basis of course. However having a love will bring tenderness, intimacy and kindness which can last forever... and the friends become second to your love...
thats what i am thinking.
But i dont have a love at the moment, so mty friends are at the top!! haha
bye!
@cliffcliff (1350)
• United States
9 Dec 07
thats true, maybe sometime your friend will become your lover then! that did not happen to me before.
But i will tell you when you get older, many of the friends get married and forget about me haha... now i have no lover, and my friends are my food and tea for now, haha!
I am very glad to join your discussion from California to China!
@comeonmolly (828)
• China
8 Dec 07
Hi,again cliffcliff,
I am really gald u are join in this discussion,haha,
just as what u said love can give us tenderness,intimacy,kindness,etc,which both the friends can give us ,but this kind of comfort is much different from the loved ones give us,as for me I will rank the friendship and the lover as the same position,maybe at this time I say this when something really happen to both my friends and my lover, maybe I will come to my loved ones,haha,I am just frankly...
Molly..;-)
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
1 Sep 07
You cannot befriend anyone untill and unless you there is love in your heart. You have to be very compassionate, kind, considerate and sweet to make someone, as your dear friend. Friendship and love can be two sides of the coin sometimes. I agree both are important and complement each other.
Good Post!
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
5 Sep 07
Thanks for writing nice comments about my reply.
You are a good friend too!
Have a nice day!
@comeonmolly (828)
• China
2 Sep 07
So wise, I appeciate your opinion,friendship and love are both important in our dailylife,
they can't be parted,and seperated.....
Thank you my lovable friend..
Sincerely!;-)
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@comeonmolly (828)
• China
6 Sep 07
You are right,we can't devide these two parts,
they are both important,love can't live without friendship,in the other hand,friendship can't live without love.
Thanks for sharing....
Thank you!
sincerely!
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@arshad7861 (84)
• India
6 Sep 07
and dear what will happen if u will find love in friendship
this happen to me
waiting for ur reply
@comeonmolly (828)
• China
8 Sep 07
hello arshad7861
Thanks for your reply,I am glad to know you!
Have a nice day!
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@ketybhagat (4123)
• India
6 Sep 07
No love is possible without friendship. The best lovers in the world are those who are very good friends first and can talk to each other. If you are trying to weigh the love of your life with friendship on the other hand, both are equally necessary. Your lover may quit or hurt you and then it is the friend you will turn to or vice versa. Two sides of the same coin.
@comeonmolly (828)
• China
6 Sep 07
You are right,I appreciate your opinion,Just as you said love and friendship and love should be put in tha same position,we cann't devide them,When love end we will have another choice to hold our relation that is to be friends..
Thanks for sharing...
Sincerely!
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@kobetan (14)
• China
10 Sep 09
Oh,my god!
You surprise me soooooooooo much! I'm sure you love english much, right? I'm your fan!
your question:which do you think is more important"friendship or love"
but,your answer:both
Above all,we should make sure the sense of "love" in your question. you mean the love among our world ,among our human,or you mean the love just between lovers? I guess you mean the latter one.So we should never answer "no friendship without love" to this question!
In my opinion,friendship is the fundation stone of starting affection between two stanger.Friendship is the fundation stone of truelove(just between lovers).In other words,love(just between lovers) is the sublimation of friendship.Hence,love(....)is more important.I have great confidence that the best lovers are the best friends.But,you konw,truelove is unusual. What's more,truelove live in specified state,specified time......
Making this response is a sweat-work for me,but much harvest....................................................
@comeonmolly (828)
• China
19 Jan 10
Yes,kobe,
I agree with what you said :)friendship combine with love that will be the best tie that link the two loved person.This discussion is relatively older .hehe ~~after two years of experiencing life ,perhaps now I have different views on life or some other things.
Yes, honestly,this site is the best place for you to practise your Englsih ability from every aspects,and I do hope that you can drop here more often ,start some discussions response more~~~
Molly
@daizelene (64)
• Philippines
1 Sep 07
I think friendship and love are two things which can't stand alone... Once you offered friendship to someone, you are also offering your love for that person.. Although friendship sometimes is just defined as a simple "companion", true friendship is a deeper relationship that can't be called "true" without love.
@comeonmolly (828)
• China
2 Sep 07
Wise!friendship should not be seperated,they can't stand alone,friendship need to based on love, love need to based on friendship,they can't parted!
you are right..
Thanks for your response!
sincerely!
have a nice day!
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@fredgame (1260)
• China
1 Sep 07
They're equally important but i think love has more affection than friendship due to the fact that someone you love, you're tempted to go beyond all measures to make that person feels your affection well. we know friendship is sharing affection as well but love's deeper than friendship.
@comeonmolly (828)
• China
2 Sep 07
hi,again fredgame,
Our lover is important for us they company with us during our whole life,they are our spirtual comfotable and the motivation to work harder,
you are right!
Thanks for sharing....
sincerely!
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@andyliuzn (1029)
• Guangzhou, China
1 Sep 07
Hi, you really got me, I don't know how to choose a better one between the two , since both are what that cheer me up in my life. If I really have to choose, love will be the answer,since she will the one who lives with me the rest of my life, though friends could also be very valuable and give me so much happiness to me:)
Andy
@comeonmolly (828)
• China
2 Sep 07
yeah,you are wrigt, they both important,and hard to choose,so if I will tou I will choose both.
Thanks for sharing!
best wishes for you!
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