do you prepare to be good parents?when were you ready for ?
By lisa_wxy2
@lisa_wxy2 (19)
China
September 1, 2007 9:46am CST
most of my student got married,and some of them become parents now,some are going to have a baby.it sounds crazy for me.i mean i was totally unprepared to have a baby. i've experience the painful and happy process of my sister being parents . i really think that to be good parents is not easy, u should be patient and responsible....
are you ready?when were you ready for ?
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2 responses
@rb200406 (1824)
• India
1 Sep 07
Yes you are right.I also think the same way.I amnot ready to be a mother & from my inside i don't want to become mother.It might sound crazy but really i am not prepared even if i am not too young.May be i am afraid to take this responsibilty of a new life.It is absolutely neccessary that you are prepared to take the responsibility.Patience is must.
@lisa_wxy2 (19)
• China
1 Sep 07
what a surprise.our thoughts are exactly the same.i don't want kids too,my mother said that it is becuase i don't want to take the responsibilities or i fear that if baby comes,i would sacrifice more privete time and hobbies.
maybe that is true,maybe we just need time.
@Ngippol (567)
• Philippines
2 Dec 07
You are ready for marriage if you are mature enough to take responsibility and not to depend on someone else. For a man, he must be able to provide for the family's needs. If not then it's not the time to be in a serious relationship reserved for mature adults!!!
