Would this make you mad?

I'll admit that I do that on occasion, but only with my own personal 2 liter bottle of soda that no one else likes. I think that it's disgusting when someone drinks straight from the bottles of juice, milk, etc that everyone else in the home also drinks. It's so rude. I don't blame you for being angry. I think that if I were you, I'd tell the guy, just as he's taking a big long swig out of the milk bottle, that you and the kids all spit in it, and watch his reaction. LOL

On the rare occasions that I drink anything other than water, it is from a glass, and the same holds true with my wife. As for the water, I keep a milk jug of it in the refrigerator and use an insulated 64oz.jug and straw, which is good for about half a day. Under no circumstances do either of us drink from the container, nor do any guests. If I caught someone doing that I would kick their tail, and throw them out. We had that problem for a while when we did foster care, and finally got those kids halfway housebroke...but it wasn't easy. As for your husband, you do have a problem...and I hope you can reach a satisfactory solution.

Hi Brenda, i'm sure i have drank from a juice jug or other! During my drinking days i was very selfish and was thoughtless on many things! I wouldn't do this now and i wouldn't accept anyone else to either! Take care Brenda.

Hi Brenda! Well no - I don't have anyone in my house that's as selfish because I wouldn't put up with it! Obviously I don't know your personal situation, but if you pay all the blls, and are legally married, ten surely you have rights? The house ust be at least half in your name (at least t would be in the UK), and you could leave him/divorce him/ask him to leave at ay time with no loss of financial or other Jsecurity. It is not right that I hould tell you what to do - that has got to be your own personal choice - but in my view, a decent, hard-working person like you, shouldn't live their lives as stressed and unhappy as you seem to be because you are incompatible with the man you share the house with. ust because you maried him - doesn't mean you have to be tied to him for life if things are making you that unhappy! Times change - people change and grow apart - that's part of life. So my advice would be break free and reclaim your life back girl:-))

sure it's his house, so as yours and your kids. as what you say you pay the bills, you buy the groceries etc., don't buy anything for a week and when he ask why there's no milk, juice etc. just tell him flat to his face to buy himself after all it's only him who has the pleasure of drinking those stuffs and nobody in the household touches those stuffs after him. stand up to him.

well i feel your pain. my brother is like that very lazy he drank my grape juice without asking me. he leaves dirty dishes he does nothing around the house but make mess. i cant believe you have to pay all the bills that should be done equally. i just argued with my brother i told him to stop being so lazy and nasty but its like talking to a brick wall. hopefully he will change..

Boy what a bumb. Yes this would make me mad. Where does he get off saying it's his house if your paying all the bills and buying all the groceries.Is he ill or disabled that your supporting him? I think I would be temped to put something in the drinks, something really discusting feeling like raw oysters. He would have his drinks and keep his hands off the rest. I wish I knew why some men are such pigs.

Hey there my friend I think its gross too! I havent seen someone do that since I was a kid. Tell him to grow up and get a glass like adults do. If he says its his house just say yea since when? I know he wont stop doing it because he sounds like a stubborn person who only cares about him self. I feel sorry for you and who knows maybe you will meet someone!hehehehh take sweetie

If you bought two of each beverage, would he stick to the one designated as his? You shouldn't have to do that at all. My dad used to do that, but my mom got fed up and really gave him 'a talkin' to.' She had to have several chats with him before he finally gave up the nasty habit. Giving that up is the leat your hubby could do for you.

Hi brendakaya, For some reason, this seems to be 'a male thing,' although it's certainly not practiced by all males. There are likely females that do this, as well. I find this to be very inconsiderate, and it's sad that the offender is your husband. If it were me, I'd somehow make sure that I had any beverages for myself, and other family members, hidden behind other items (way far back, if necessary), and then I'd just let him go ahead and do this. He may think he's getting away with it, but that's not the issue (I guess). Perhaps one of these days, he'll realize that it's important to you, and so he should respect your wishes.

Take a hike! Tell him when HE gets a JOB & HE buys the stuff then he can do it - until then, if HE can't be bothered to get a glass then HE can just find a new place to live.

I am really lucky that I don't have a person like that living in my house. Honestly if he said to me "It's my house I'll do what I want!" I'd probably turn around and say something like "I paid for the juice your drinking, is it too much to ask for a bloody glass of juice without your cooties in it?" I honestly don't know how or why you put up with it. I am sure you have your reasons, but if you ever need to talk I am just a pm away! I personally think you deserve better! Luv & Hugzz, PurpleTeddyBear.

Sorry that you have to deal with that. Just a question though. If you feel like this about your husband why dont you do something about it? When i lived at home my dad did it all the time and it made me so mad. I mean there is a house full of other people and no one else wants to drink after someone else! I dont think its wrong that you want to drink something he hasnt "slobbered in." I always say something if i see someone doing it, but most of the time it doesnt do any good.

my brother is like that but he can never smart off on me to say its his house because its never his but my house..what he do is, drink all the water in the pitcher that i filled inside the refrigirator then he will not replace the water he consumed..worst is he just leave the pitcher inside the ref even if its already empty..its not that to tiring or time consuming to replace the water he just drank,anyway he emptied it so he must fill it..another thing i hate him doing is bringing the pitchers and glasses in his bedroom and then just leave it stuck in there till i would decide to take it out from there and filled it with water and clean it..he is just too lazy which had led us to confrontations and fights..i kick him out my house..i don't need a parasite inside my home..

Get separate containers of juice etc for him. Put a glass in the fridge and when he says it's his house say it's our family home. Or, next time he takes a container out of the fridge to take a swig, tell him the rest of you spat in it and ask him if that's ok.

The first time I saw him do it, I would tell him to stop. The second time I would tell him if he wants a drink, he should pay for it. True it is his house, but the beverages I paid for , so they are mine.And if that didn't work, I would star getting drinks that he doesn't like , but I do. And I would get the single serve sizes. But with me, if he said it was his house, then i would say you can keep the house , but you don't stop, I'lll leave you in your house alone.

Oh dear this does sound like a turn off lol..I know some things men do really turn us off don't they? Especially if we are lady like with manners..I am very lady like with Hubby..I don't even fart in front of him lol hhe So this does sound a bit gross lol.I do understand where you are coming from lol totally!

i wouldn't be thrilled,that's for sure. my brother used to do this until one time i was really sick and decided to prove to him how germs pass.i took a big swig of something he kept doing it to,and he got the flu also. juvenile of me,i know,but it cured him! all the yelling in the world did nothing.

I saw my husband drink out of the carton of juice when we first got married. I told him that it was not right to drink the juice like that because somebody else might want some. Ever since thne he uses a glass. I guess that you tried that with your husband. He is just being rude. Maybe you can stop buying milk. It doesn't sound like anybody else even gets to drink any milk. Good Luck:)

Oh my, that is definitely inconsiderate and nasty. As picky as I am about eating or drinking after people I definitely wouldn't want to pour anything after he's been drinking out of the jug. But since it seems like he has such a rude attitude, which my boyfriend has at times. Maybe since you said you buy all the groceries you could buy a little carton for him to drink out of or hide you a carton maybe in the bottom of the refrigerator if he just won't compromise.