What do I do When My 19 Yr old always stays on the phone or comp.?

you need to buck up mom and give this boy some tough love. He is 19! he is an adult or should be. It is hard to answer this without knowing the full situation. Does he work at all? Does he help out in other ways? Regardless it is your home . My girls have had friends that would call all hours. I have a 9:00pm limit for calls unless they are emergency. I would answer that phone and inform the caller that she should not be calling. how old is the girl?

Well, tell ur guy to learn how to limit himself, since this is obviously the sympton of the long distance relationship, which i have been into which is why i hate it.He obviously met the girl online and has little knowledge of her personally yet the two want to see each other, since there is probably no way of letting them see each other personally.I suggest u let them see each other a few times a week so the hassle of Instant Messaging or calling doesnt become a total burden on you plus they dont get to bug you even at the middle of work

You should tell and remind him for using the long call. Just for work! Or an appoinment I used to tell my families, not to tell the history on the phone and tell the whole stories on the phone. They changed afterward.

It is very hard for a mom to understand things some things a young adolescent can be thinking. I am a 21 and for my part I think that you are worried for your son. It might be best to get to know his girlfriend a little more but that usually scares them of, so you can do it in a not very obvious way. It gives you a chance to know what your son is thinking about and it is easier to get to converse in girl to girl talk with his girlfriend if you really cared. It takes time but you have to lay down the rules too. Make sure he has a balance view of things cause it is unhealthy to get too much of something. You are the parent but also a mother for that fact. I too get the feeling my mother is hesitant in which girls I am inerested in. If he cares about her, I think you should understand why. I think complimenting his relationship will let him reveal how he feels about her in more detail and will let you understand why.

I am only 23 years old becky. I am a mother, but my child is only 19 months. I have a sister who's almost 18. It's going to be hard to do, but you should take the computer and unhook it or at least move it somewhere else. Tell him you don't want him seeing this girl. It's so hard when you love your child, but in order to make them do right, you gotta do the hard things. If he doesn't wanna listen, tell him to get out...If he realizes you're making him leave, then he'll straighten up. That's what my mother did to me when I was 18. I moved back home when I was 19 and stopped doing the things that was getting me in trouble. I am on my own now and have been for a while. I am so happy to. I love my little girl with all my heart.