Do you believe in love at first sight or hear?
By taylorblue
@taylorblue (1286)
Canada
5 responses
@MrPahn (173)
• Philippines
7 Sep 07
I have no ugly soulmate.. If you are referring to the one I am really inlove forever, well I kinda stayed away from her at the moment. It sucks, thou, she is a princess.. That's the reason why I stay away. She is a princess. She is kinda scary, but I did not fall inlove to her at the first sight. And I am not really close to her in any matter. I hated the way she looks at me, makes me think she likes me. Oh crap, I wanted to get rich before I am ready to talk to her.. =(
@taylorblue (1286)
• Canada
6 Sep 07
Time kinda sucks eh? But if you are always in love with hot chicks like you say ... what happens to the ugly one that might be your soul mate?
@r_yuen (332)
• Indonesia
6 Sep 07
I believe love grow through times, both bad and good times. For the "love at the first sight", I believe it isn't love, it's probably LUST. Because you can't love people just by how their physical looks. When he/she grow older will you still love him/her? I only love you at the first sight, but not at the last sight? Love grow stronger through times. Love is something that bound you, make you feel the needs for each other, make you feel whole. Am I right?
@taylorblue (1286)
• Canada
6 Sep 07
I think its possible to feel a connection with someone right away...because if I didn't I probably wouldn't even have given my husband a second chance...
@r_yuen (332)
• Indonesia
8 Sep 07
You're probably right. But still, before you decide to marry your husband and say "I do", you evaluate all the love process that you've gone through right? I think the "feeling" that you mentioned when you first met him was kind like a "pulse" that made you think "Hmmm... I like this guy". But yet, it hasn't turn to the love stage. You'll know it was love when you decided that you want to be with that guy forever in your life. That's what I think... :)
@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
3 Sep 07
Yes, and I believe in love at first READ too! *grin* My fiance and I originally met on line, and then from there we went to phone calls (I loved his voice the moment I heard it) and then we met in person, and fell in love all over again.
@raychill (6525)
• United States
4 Sep 07
I've never heard of Love at first hear?
I don't believe you can fall in love with someone at first sight. Nor do I think you can fall in love with someone just from hearing them speak. I believe you can fall in love with someone you've never met, like over the phone.
I think you can get a feeling the first time you meet someone or talk to someone, but I don't think it's love. I think it's Pheromones.
@raychill (6525)
• United States
7 Sep 07
Considering I said I don't believe you can fall in love with someone at first hear... that would be my obvious answer to your question. You fall in love with the person on the inside if anything, if you don't believe in the pheromones theory. So that would explain what, in my beliefs, happened with you. You fell in love with the words, not the voice.
@taylorblue (1286)
• Canada
6 Sep 07
OK but how can you fall in love with someone when you hear their voice...you can feel it deep inside of you without a doubt. That can't me pheromones???
@CaitBaby (446)
• United States
3 Sep 07
Hey taylorblue! Personally, I don't really believe in love at first sight. I think it's just a very strong attraction, but then again, what do I know!? LOL :P
