A child called "It"
By devilsangel
@devilsangel (1817)
United States
September 3, 2007 4:10pm CST
I just finished the most provoctive and profound book ever. It is called A child called "It". The book is about a boy who spent the greater part of his youth being abused and tormented by his mother. It is a true story and one of the worst cases of child abuse the State of California has ever seen. This book by far is a great example of how people chose to ignore the cries for help of children and how things like this can really happen. If anyone gets the chance I suggest reading it. If anyone has already read it please tell me what you think.
Its by Dave Pelzer, the book is his life story.
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16 responses
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
3 Sep 07
Isnt it an absolutely incredible book!! I've read it a couple of times and am waiting for his second book to be returned to the library so I can read that too...His brother also has a book out about their childhood abuse and his side/version which from what I've heard is just as good...
She was a seriously vile wingnut wasnt she?! I'll tell ya, very few books make me shed a tear but that one did...and even LESS books cause me to blow off my daily activities to read them but that one did...I read the whole thing in like 2 hrs
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@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
3 Sep 07
Another heartwrencher would be the story of Trudy Chase....the book is called When Rabbit Howls and its actually written by her other personalities who call themselves "The Troops"...Ive still not managed to get through that one..she was severely abused and ended up with multiple personalities...the original Trudy has not "existed" since she was 2 YRS OLD!!
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@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
3 Sep 07
for those interested...here is his website
http://www.davepelzer.com/
I'd recommend his books to anyone and have to many since reading "A Child" for the first time last yr...
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@devilsangel (1817)
• United States
4 Sep 07
I'm actually going to go and buy the rest of the books in the series. I bought this one last night and read it all before nights end. I started reading it in the car and couldn't put it down till I was finished.
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@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
3 Sep 07
Hello devilsangel,
Yes I read that many years ago and the second one too. It was a heartbreaker, but the second one if I remember correctly gives you that relief feeling that he is out of that home, but he still is curious about his home. Yep, for some reason, he is close enough to his parents home that he rides to the street to watch his family, I think he should have been as far away from them as possible, but that is me opinion..
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@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
3 Sep 07
There are actually 4 titles in all that cover his life (child, boy/adolecent/teen/man) but there are also 2 additional titles that are self help books
Help Yourself
and
Help Yourself for Teens
all of which I plan to buy because he really is an amazing author and a true inspiration....I'd like to check out his brothers book too like I mentioned in my post in this thread...
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@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
4 Sep 07
Yes I knew there were others, but I only read the first 2..
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@southernbelle77_ab (87)
• United States
8 Sep 07
I started to read this book but I just don't have the stomach for it. The sad part is that it really happend. It just breaks my heart to even hear of anyone being mean to a child. I know I would cry all through the reading of it.
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@devilsangel (1817)
• United States
8 Sep 07
There are parts that make you want to cry, but there were parts that made me want to shout in encouragement, and smile at his courage and how strong his will was. This book even as sad as it is has a very good message as far as the strenght of a child. He proved that no matter what she wasn't going to break his spirt and for ever child or adult who has ever gone through abuse he's a great example of not giving up.
@ladybug565 (2216)
• United States
4 Sep 07
I read that book and it really made me cry! It is hard to believe someone expecially a parent could be so cruel to an innocent child, what an amazing spirit that boy had to be able to withstand that kind of abuse and become such a wonderfull person. I actually read all 4 of the books in that series.
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@ladybug565 (2216)
• United States
4 Sep 07
My mistake only 3. A child called it, The lost boy and A Man named Dave. Sorry about that. I read them all though the first one really was a tear jerker!
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@devilsangel (1817)
• United States
4 Sep 07
I am looking to buy the other 2 books in the series and the one his brother wrote. It was so touching, I want to see what happens next. I think with all the feedback I've gotten on this I might start a mylot book club type thing. What do you think? Good idea or not?
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@ladybug565 (2216)
• United States
5 Sep 07
devilsangel that sounds like a great idea. let me know if you do.
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@sephrenia (567)
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7 Sep 07
I read this book after my mum threw it at me demanding I did so. She had bought it from teh sale rack at the local library and she couldnt get enough of it. I wasn't particularly interested but to make my mum happy I read it.
I swear to goodness a book has never made me cry like that before. I felt so sorry for him as he recounted how he had to go through trash cans to get some food. His mother was one sick, twisted lady. And to find out that she not only stabbed him, she made him suffer in the basement after giving it a basic dressing! if I could find her I would soooo give that lady a piece of my mind. As soon as I finished reading I went to check on my own babies and gave them an extra tight hug and kiss.
I can't wait to get my hands on the second book, I really want to find out what on earth happened next and if his life got any better after being dragged away from that monster.
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@devilsangel (1817)
• United States
7 Sep 07
Yea I think if his mother is still living and not in prison she's got a lot of angry people looking for her. I hope that she is never allowed to care for another child. I can't say that I don't understand how a person can be that way because sadly I have already experienced a mom similar to his, so I know first hand the crule nature of people.
@chileman (967)
• Australia
4 Sep 07
Not sure if I'd get into a book like that. Lately I've been trying to read uplifting or action books, not because I'm trying to hide from reality or anything like that but just want to get away from tradegy etc for a while!
@reinydawn (11643)
• United States
4 Sep 07
I have only read the first 2 of the books, and found them very moving. I could never imagine having to go through what he did, but it is wonderful that he is such a great man now.
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@Schala (60)
• United States
4 Sep 07
I read part of the second book one day while substitute teaching...I almost cried. It was horrible to read about the way that he was shuffled from home to home, and the way that his mother treated him versus how his siblings were treated. Sometime I will have to read the series, but I have a feeling that I will need plenty of tissue...
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@ArmyChick (488)
• United States
4 Sep 07
wow i have never heard of this book, but i will surely get on amazon today and order it.
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@HollyK (29)
• United States
5 Sep 07
This book is on my loooong list of books that I want to read. It was reccommended to me by my teenage children who found it through one of their teachers. My trying to be supercool teenage boy was brought to tears by this book, so I really must read it...guess I'll bump it up on the list.
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@devilsangel (1817)
• United States
5 Sep 07
When you do read it I suggest you read it with some tissues. It made me cry a few times while reading it. It will also make you angery and a whole bunch of other mixed feelings.
@BayleighGray (4334)
• United States
4 Sep 07
I read that book as well! Oh my goodness I couldnt stop crying half the time! Its been some years since I read the book. It sickens me to think that someone could possibly abuse a child, not only physically but mentally as well.
I think you have to be a strong soul to endure such hatred from someone you were born to love unconditionally. Im not really sure how a mother could feel that way toward something that she nurtured from her own body for 9months. I applauded Dave Pelzer for overcoming his childhood and not carrying over the hatred that his mother showed him.
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@maybebaby (1230)
• Canada
4 Sep 07
I have read all of David Pelzer's biography books and A Child Called IT is by far my favorite. It is a horrifying glance into the crazy world of child abuse and makes you want to do more to help children that maybe in need and cannot ask for it. After reading the book I donated some items to a local children's foundation for abused children. It was the least I could do.
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@xfallenxlostx (2074)
• United States
4 Sep 07
i have read this book. It was absolutely incredible. It was completely captivating. It is actually a part of a trilogy. One of the others is called "A Man Called Dave" or "A Man Named Dave" or something like that. i have read all 3 books and they were all goos, but the first one (the one you mentioned) is the best one. It is great for psychology students to read...or for anyone, really!