Fixed Marriage

I truly do believe that our parents, as they are our elders, more experienced and have seen more of the world than us, know best. Yes, exceptions are there and many peope would have different views on this too, and each person to their own opinions on this topic, but this is what i believe in. Marriages are made in heaven- so the saying goes. All of us have our life partners chalked out in His kingdom i think and its just a formality we all do here. For some its good for some its bad, so a lot would depend. Yes, our parents have raised us and they know when we are ready for marriage and mostly whom they choose, am sure they would have seen the boy, and his back ground and all the details and then asked or told you for marriage. Yes, with the changing times, i dont think i would willingly agree and say yes straight away, nor would my parents ask me to get maried within 1 month or so, as they would surely give us some time to know each other a little better, decently. And once we get to know each other and see the compatabilty, then we would agree for the marriage and a committment as to what our parents had wanted from us. And if my to be husband has seen me and is waiting for me to say yes, i would request him also to know me a little better first, so that hes aware what hes going in for, its always better to get to know the natures a little of people you are going to get married to, after all its a life long committment isnt it.