Your bestfriend is boring...do you tell them

If you are really true freinds, then you would tell your friend very frankly what you are feeling. I believe that if you are real friends then there is nothing to hide and hold back and friendship means to share everything with each other and to be able to tell them their flaws on the face. But if you are not that good a friend and just casual friends, then you would, i guess, tend to start keeping a little away from her, so that you are not bored in her company. But if i had been in your place, i think i would have tried to find out, as to why shes become more quiet, maybe shes facing some kind of problem, maybe personal or family related, can be anything, but being a good friend i will pursue her to tell me what the problem is, and remember as shes the quiet and introvert kinds, she wont tell you on her onw, you have to keep asking and get it out from her. Once she tells you the reason for her worry and her quiteness, then you should try and help her out and make her feel better, and if you are able to help her, she would feel better, lighter and become just as what she was before. I am sure there must be a reason for her such kind of sudden change on behavioour, just reach out, hold her hand and ask her, be with her, these are passing phases of life and testing time for your friendship too, to see how strong your friendship is.

i do not usually tell them straight to the face. i try to find ways to tell them in some other ways, indirectly. i avoid putting them into shame as much as possible.

I don't know. I am usually pretty quiet, and my friends are too. I think too, that as we have gotten older, we have less adventures and we've gone to less parties. I think you shouldn't work hard to make the other person have a good time. I don't with my friends, and they don't with me, and we all still enjoy spending time together.

Hi Simoneetah, I used to be placed at the same situation.I'm the calmer one. When that happened she yelled at me and left.I don't know whether your friend is an introvert one but I am. I usually get calmer than normal when something bad happen to me and I don't want to talk about it, not even to my best friend.It's not that I don't want to share my burden, it just hard for people like me to let it out.Or there might be something you did that she/he didn't like. I think both of you need to talk about it, coz' that what we did when this situation came in front of us. Have a great day