One month to live....what would you do??

@crazymom (579)
United States
October 26, 2006 10:46pm CST
If a doctor told you that you had only one month the live what one thing would you do???
3 people like this
23 responses
• United States
27 Oct 06
If I only had 30 days to live I'd - *Make a daily video diary for my son and hubby. I would give them both envouragement in everything they do and remind that that even though I'm gone I will always be here and I will always love them. I will include for my son, any advice I think he might need or want growing up. *I'd make sure my will was current and up to date. *I would forgive everyone whos hurt me and I would contact as many people as I could to apologize for ever hurting them Most of all though, I'd be with my family.
2 people like this
@crazymom (579)
• United States
27 Oct 06
Wow! You have thought of everything. So, you wouldn't have a place you really wanted to see???
• United States
31 Oct 06
Not really. I probably wouldn't have thought about all this, but at the moment we are waiting to find out if a mole my hubby has is cancer. It really makes you think. I don't walways, but I try to live everyday like its my last.
@NOCEagle (583)
• United States
27 Oct 06
I would visit almost all of my cousins, and spend my last month happily with my family.
2 people like this
@crazymom (579)
• United States
27 Oct 06
Sounds nice.
@bigedshult1 (1613)
• United States
27 Oct 06
I would go see mu kids and grandkids because that is that is important for happy every after
@crazymom (579)
• United States
27 Oct 06
yes, I believe that
@ddsully (1062)
• United States
27 Oct 06
def make a video for my daughter, make sure everything is in order for her, quit my job, travel and spend every day with her and my family, and take lots of photos for her to remember
2 people like this
@crazymom (579)
• United States
27 Oct 06
Sounds good! Would you want to take any trips?
• Denmark
27 Oct 06
I would enjoy my family and closest friends and give them all the time i have
2 people like this
@crazymom (579)
• United States
27 Oct 06
That is great!! Family and friends are everything!
• United States
27 Oct 06
I would spend as much time as I could with my daughter. I would take a ton a pix and video for her to watch when she gets older...so she can remember her mommy.
2 people like this
@crazymom (579)
• United States
27 Oct 06
Oh, that sounds really nice.
@remaster74 (4064)
• Greece
27 Oct 06
If I had only 30 days of life, I would have made the world as different as I most could do, because I would love to see from above my son to live in a good and happy world. I really hope this will never happens cause I think I will die instantly by heart attack if someone told me that I had only 30 more days to spend with my son.
@crazymom (579)
• United States
1 Nov 06
It would be so hard to take something like that.
@srhelmer (7029)
• Beaver Dam, Wisconsin
27 Oct 06
Well, for one, I would quit my job. Then I would spend every waking minute with my family.
2 people like this
@crazymom (579)
• United States
27 Oct 06
That sounds nice!!
@ngty69 (971)
• India
27 Oct 06
I will live my life to the fullest.
1 person likes this
@crazymom (579)
• United States
27 Oct 06
SOunds great to me!!
@tommy0099 (194)
• Indonesia
27 Oct 06
one month to live , it too short for me I'll go to church and pray every day for my life ask yesus to give me more life
2 people like this
@crazymom (579)
• United States
27 Oct 06
Thanks for your comment!!
@shrys03 (1016)
• Philippines
27 Oct 06
as much as possible i spend more time and make fun memories to my family and friendsand i will write individual notes/letters to those I love, sharing fun and meaningful memories I'd also ask forgiveness or show forgiveness to anyone I needed to. and of course thanking god for all the wonderful things he done to me.. :))
2 people like this
@crazymom (579)
• United States
27 Oct 06
I can't believe that everyone has such good answers. I really expected to have a bunch of trips. Like I would live to see Egypt before I die.
@pookie92 (1714)
• United States
27 Oct 06
I would sell everything I own and take off on a world cruise, see and do everything......
1 person likes this
@crazymom (579)
• United States
27 Oct 06
That sounds like fun!!
@HallE2386 (341)
• United States
27 Oct 06
i would make sure i spent as much time with my loved ones as possible...and i would try to achieve every goal i had, and i would probably take a vactaion with my family, and make a documentary so they would have something to watch whenever they wanted to see my face.
2 people like this
@crazymom (579)
• United States
27 Oct 06
What are some of your goals??
@damonlady (574)
• Romania
27 Oct 06
the doctors told me i have 6 mounth to live.. and after that for 2 mounth all i did is to feel sick and faint all day long, scared... oh boy was horible..till one day when i said.. oh and i die what.. at least i should live something usefull behind or a good memory of myself... so i start listening to firends..and living like ther eis no tomorrow...and i start beeing happy...and now.. well now.. have passed 10 years..since that day..and i still live like there is no tomorrow... and i got married..and i'm happy..and i wouldn't change a thing into my life. I've learned to apreciate quality and good people..so.. i guess if a doctor tells me that i have just one mounth to live i would do exactly the same thing i'm doing now:)
@crazymom (579)
• United States
27 Oct 06
I bet that was hard. Why did they tell you that?? Isn't it great that you are still alive though!! I think that I would be a little mad at the doctor though for making such a big mistake.
• India
31 Oct 06
i would pray to god
@Jshean20 (14348)
• Canada
28 Oct 06
Hopefully I'd have enough money to take a vacation with my family for a month and get married during that time too.
@chebel82 (417)
• United States
28 Oct 06
try to reconcile all my differences with any ppl i don't get along with, and spend as much time as possible with my kids
@saphire539 (1639)
• United States
27 Oct 06
I would spend every minute i had left with my kids and husband letting them know how much i love them.We would go everywhere they wanted to go and do all the things together as a family.
@crazymom (579)
• United States
1 Nov 06
family - family
That sounds so nice. Family means everything
@nicky35 (747)
27 Oct 06
madame butterfly - my oldest child.my life changed forever the day she was born.my kids are my everything and beyond.
i am the single mum of three kids so i do think about this alot.my kids are very mummy kids,theyre klingy and follow me everywhere and i absolutely adore them.i would do everything i could to let them know how much their mum wanted and adored them and how truly special they are.
@crazymom (579)
• United States
1 Nov 06
family - family
Good for you! Do you have a plan in order? I was a single mom and that is very important especially then.
• United States
27 Oct 06
If i had one month to live...first and most important I would use that time to get closer to God. I would spend time with my husband, at the beach, or just being together. this is a sad question. i dont like it :(
@crazymom (579)
• United States
1 Nov 06
sorry - sorry
Sorry to make you sad