why parents love their childrens after their disobedience?

Hi sheryarshah, Well, I take it you have no children? That's ok, I probably felt the same way before I had kids. I don't know why parents don't correct their children other than they are afraid that they will be embarrassed or accused of child abuse, but it only makes matter worse if they don't stop the bad behavior. There are ways to correct a child without physically hurting them. Depending on the age, you could talk to them or ground them or set them in the corner. Spankings are very few and far between when I correct my kids and it is in a open hand on the bottom and it is only to get their attention when nothing else works. Once I have their attention, then I can proceed to explain what they were doing wrong.. Parenting is hard work, but it is worth it when done right. My children are not perfect, but they are not animals either..