Another toddler left in daycare van for hours!

United States
September 5, 2007 7:46pm CST
How does this happen? I have heard now for about the third time in a week that somewhere a toddler or baby has been left on a daycare van for hours. How can you forget to check all the seats when you are responsible for delivering these babies back home? The child I heard about today was in the vehicle for over 5 hours. The child's parents had been out looking for him/her when a failed delivery had occurred. Excuse me, but I think if a daycare cannot be responsible enough to check the vehicle before locking up for the evening, they don't need to be in business. Are they that careless during the day with the babies/toddlers? I know sometimes accidents happen, but this is terrible. To me at least. How do you feel?
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@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
6 Sep 07
I have never heard of this sort of incident. With daycare here, parents have to drop off & pick up children, as far as I know. How on earth could this day care parent leave a child in a van? A child they were looking after. It just seems totally ridiculous & irresponsible. At the very least, this daycare parent should have her license taken away. She can not possibly be trusted to look after children.
• United States
6 Sep 07
With daycare in most places, the parents drop off and pick up their children. What happens in most of these cases is the daycare worker who is driving the van forgets a kid in the van or what not. usually it is an infant or a toddler in a carseat. while the others kids are getting out of the van, the driver forgets about the kid in the carseat.
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@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
20 Feb 08
It is horrible. It is irresponsible. My son, who cannot walk and cannot talk, was left on the bus, while the bus driver left and went home. He was there for about 30 minutes before someone listened and started looking for him. I was furious, and scared. I know how those parents must have felt.
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• United States
20 Feb 08
I am so sorry that you and your son had to go through something so frightening and so preventable!! I am so afraid for all these little ones who are defenseless and at the mercy of these so called child care professionals, I think stricter laws should be in effect and that those in the childcare business should have to be licensed & checked up on regularly, I know that it is not a great paying job as a profession and requires much patience, but it is a serious job that comes with loads of responsibility. I hope the employee who neglected your son was reprimanded! Thank you for sharing this with me, again I am so sorry that you had to go through this. It must of been a nightmare for you both.
@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
17 Feb 08
This is awful, this is so unprofessional and who ever was in charge should be charged with a crime. Is it that much trouble to walk through the vehicle and check every seat? Shame on them!
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• United States
17 Feb 08
Howard you are so right about this, it takes no time at all to check each and every seat. Especially when it is small children involved. Unexcusable and I hope this never happens to anyone else. Thanks for sharing with me.
@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
6 Feb 08
I'd say if they can't handle a simple thing like taking kids home from the daycare then I sure wouldn't trust them with my kid to begin with. !!HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!! **AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~
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@mizrae (587)
• United States
6 Sep 07
I took my son OUT of a day care home because the care giver left my son alone (he was 4 or 5 months at the time) locked in the house while she walked another child home. Even though she was only going a few doors down, YOU DO NOT leave a child anywhere alone. Had I not left work early that day I wouldn't have even known that was the routine EVERY DAY. Don't they do "head counts" anymore? Now that I think about it, my son was also left on the school bus one time when being transported from school to the day care center. That was scary not knowing where he was for several hours.
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• United States
11 Sep 07
Thank God you came in early to catch the daycare worker, you must have been horrified! I would have been so angry and upset about this. I remember one time too my little boy when he was in kindergarten, I waited everyday when my kids got off the bus, he did not get off his bus and I immediately called the school and was going crazy with worry. The bus driver though, bless his heart, he was a real great guy, he noticed right away that my son had fallen asleep in the seat and he immediately returned him home to me for which I was truly greatful.
@sephrenia (567)
6 Sep 07
Hi there, did the child survive? I've been reading more and more lately about people who are leaving their children in hot vehicles after forgetting them or people who are supposed to be caring for them forgetting about them. I would honestly love to know how in the heck anyone can forget about a child. It's not as if they're hard to hide or anything and if you're the mother you sure as heck don't forget you've given birth do you? I just wish people would double check their cars, I would rather be late to work or to uni because I had to sort out my child than i would forget my child and suffer horrendous loss that could simply be avoided :(
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• United States
11 Sep 07
I did not hear anything about the child dying, so I am assuming the child is alive and well, he/she was just forgotten about and left in the vehicle for a very long time. Thank God it was at night and temps were cooler.
@GardenGerty (160677)
• United States
6 Sep 07
I have seen it happen in a school situation, where I delivered a bus with several two and a half year olds for a morning one day a week. I had nine adult teachers get on my bus, but they forgot one of seven children. I drove back to the bus barn, and when I checked my bus, there was this little girl. I was dumbfounded. I think the larger number of people involved or responsible, the more likely they will all assume that someone else has done that final check. The driver should always do a final check. Count them as they get on, count them as the are dropped off, then turn around and look at the seats, and behind the seats. My first day of driving bus,a little first grader forgot to get off at her school. I drove to multiple locations, she was confused, and she did not know me, either. She thought she would get in trouble, so she hid behind the seat. I found her, and believe you me, I got acquainted really fast with all of the kids on my route. I took her into the school, promised her she would not be in trouble, and things went great after that.
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@sylvia13 (1850)
• Nelson Bay, Australia
6 Sep 07
I saw a little girl whose father left her out in his car when it was very hot and you should have seen her when she was discovered! She was completely red, distraught and soaked in sweat! He had just gone inside to talk to all the girls in the office where I was working at the time. Talk about being selfish and he was a medical doctor, to make things worse!
@aprilgrl (4460)
• United States
6 Sep 07
I think it's really BAD. If the daycare can't handle to watch or keep up with the kids then they don't need to be in business. I don't see how they can forget them or left them out as they should know who they are and where they are.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
6 Sep 07
Hi applsofgld, I'm not familiar with daycare vans that deliver babies and toddlers. In our area, the parents are responsible for picking them up, in every case that I know of. This certainly eliminates tragedies of this type. However, awhile back we did have a 12 year old (I believe) girl left on a school bus for hours. She was autistic, and was left strapped in her seat. She was 'okay,' but the people in charge of the bus company (who I actually know), had no choice, but to fire the driver. This driver had worked for them for many years.
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• United States
6 Sep 07
I think it is scary. It is a sign of the times. So much is going downhill. Common sense seems foreign.
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@KarenO52 (2950)
• United States
6 Sep 07
There is no excuse for something like that happening. They should not be allowed to remain in business. If they can't even check the vehicle, which should only take a few seconds, what else goes unnoticed?
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• United States
14 Sep 07
I did not hear about this but I never could understand how one can leave a child in a car period. I never forgot my children. I was late by a few minutes one time but never left them in a car or a van and walked away. How does a child care worker leave a child in the van? I think that worker needes to be jailed or punished some how. How horrible for the child and the parents.
• United States
6 Sep 07
That's awful. Stories like this make me glad I decided to stay home with my daughter rather than put her in daycare. I have a 15 month old myself and babysit other kids for extra income. Whenever I get out of the car, I triple check to make sure I have all the kids. There's no excuse for that. If your job requires taking other people's lives in your hands, you darn well better be paying attention. That daycare needs their license pulled and the driver should be charged with child endangerment.
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