Do you believe that a person who cheats on their partner will always cheat?

United States
September 5, 2007 9:34pm CST
I hear from alot of people that a person who cheats will always do it even if they say they won't.I think it's because there never satisfied with whoever their with and always want something new?
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@nikkiwith (1074)
• Australia
6 Sep 07
I think there is some truth to it, but i hope it's not true. People can change and people do change. I have cheated on every boyfriend i had, but now i'm 27 and i know that when i find the love of my life i will not cheat on him. I have more respect now, if i fall out of love then i will communicate my needs and wants to my partner. If your partner believes that you are both happy and you cheat, then that is really low, but if your partner is in denial and won't leave, or you are too scared to leave, then cheating is understandable.
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• United States
6 Sep 07
I know I did alot of it when I was younger but I hope that I have grown up enough that I wouldn't do that to someone I love.
@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
6 Sep 07
I would say that if a person is 19 or 20...they may change..but someone who is in their 30s or older, if they cheat on someone, they will continue to cheat. I think sometimes when people are younger they make mistakes, as they age, it is not just a younthful blunder.
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• United States
7 Sep 07
I think it really depends on the person, why they cheated and what really happened and what sort of strain it caused within your relationship. Some things are obviously easier to forgive than others, and problems usually arise whenever good communication isn't practiced amongst the couple. Sometimes however, some of these people just don't get it and don't care about the people they are hurting when they cheat. These people will continue to cheat over and over again because they like how it feels and they like the sneakiness and what not of the situation. They're just no good and better left alone.
• United States
6 Sep 07
Ok. I wont lie..I cheated on the guys I dated back when I was 16-18. Then I meet my Hunny. He was what I needed. I have NEVER and will NEVER cheat on him. He treats me well, Satisfies me, takes care of me, Loves me no matter what, we have 2 kids together, been together 6+ years. I guess when you find what your looking for your content and dont need to go somewhere else. I didnt ever have what I wanted before which is why I cheated. Never found anything better till I found Him. I guess some people can change, or change if they want to. Some people cant..those are the ones who will do it no matter who there with.
@rouwel23 (1353)
• Philippines
7 Sep 07
there is a person who truly would change and regret what he has done and would change himself for good but most people who have already cheated on their partner would naturally seek another way to cheat most people who would cheat would truly as you have said would never be satisfied and would create scenarios to cheat