can a man be friends with a woman and not have an agenda.

United States
October 27, 2006 1:35am CST
some think that a man can't be good friends with a woman and not have thoughts or motives of being with her.What are your thoughts.
13 responses
• India
14 Nov 06
well they can be...no probs in that
@baysmummy (1637)
• Australia
14 Nov 06
I believe that if a man really wants to "Just" be friends with a woman then sure they can do it and i dont see anything wrong with men and women being just friends at all, I myself have plenty of male friends and i dont have an agenda or motives of being with them and neither them with me we are just good friends and it will always be that way abit like brother and sister type thing!
@eoconn03 (152)
• United States
3 Nov 06
Absolutely. I have male friends and there surely is no agenda there!
• United States
3 Nov 06
WELL I THINK A GUY ALWAYS HAS ANOTHER AGENDA BUT IF THEY HAVE THE BALLS TO ACT ON IT IS ANOTHER THING... SEE I AM DATING THIS GIRL SHE IS AMAZING BUT ALL OF HER FRIENDS ARE GUYS I HATE IT.. BECAUSE I CAN'T EVEN COUNT HOW MANY TIMES THAT ONE OF THE GUYS SHE IS FRIENDS WITH ENDS UP LIKING HER... SO I SAY THAT A GUY CAN'T BE FRIENDS WITH A WOMEN... SOMETHING ALWAYS GOES WRONG..
@suzieque (2334)
• Canada
3 Nov 06
Yes! A man can be friends with a girl with no agenda in mind!
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
14 Nov 06
I say yes they can but People always asume that there is something going on I don't see why a Man can not be friends with a Woman
@bhchy1 (6047)
• United States
3 Nov 06
Most of my best friends are males...they are true friends. no jealousy issues, backstabbing and all the nonsense that comes from having female friends...pretty much it's my female friends that have agendas.
@Katy238 (1028)
• United States
2 Nov 06
Of course. There is nothing wrong with friendships... nothing
@forfein (2507)
2 Nov 06
I have three of four good friends who are women, and NO thoughts of a hidden agenda. This is the old old story of if a guy is happy with his lot he will not go looking elsewhere!
@queenyesi (577)
• United States
2 Nov 06
if that a picture of you then no. Women who look like us rarley find men who are just interested in friendships. Even if they know its never going to happen they still have thoughts about it.
@UscatU (45)
• Romania
2 Nov 06
When I see yor pic I can`t hold my self and think about how do you look naked :)) , (i`m just joking!) ! I have to say you look very god ! And about your wondering it`s not like that . I have friends (girls)and i respect them as a friend of mine and nothing else .
@toastking (272)
2 Nov 06
Yes its very possible, I am good friends with my girlfriends best mate to the point where it annoys the gf. I am also good mates with a girl who through hanging out with me and my mates has hung out with my bro and they are getting close, which is so cool cos they are both immense people. So yes its very easily possible but not as often as men like to let on.
• Canada
2 Nov 06
sure