fatherhood is very tough to handle isnt it? canyou say why?
By ssf12ster
@ssf12ster (488)
India
September 6, 2007 8:32am CST
yes it is tough for me. u need to handle all things in life.wife,baby and the car.aprt from this the elders.i feel thi is the only reason.
5 responses
@bowtieguy (5915)
• United States
4 Oct 07
It is pretty hard when you are a single father trying to raise two boys, it isn; too hard though. There are just those days when a problem presents them self and you are saying I don't remember reading about this in the fatherhood handbook, but you always seem to find a way to get through it and everything works it's self out in the end, like a brady bunch episode but less corny.
@ssf12ster (488)
• India
10 Oct 07
i am able to look after and tlak with sons of my brothers and my bro in laws .i aint boastin here i only explaining how to set rite the problem.
@ssf12ster (488)
• India
10 Oct 07
i aint going after handbooks and telling him look here son this is the rule!it works out who said no but not this way man!
@askmelsufian (91)
• Malaysia
13 Sep 07
fatherhood means responsibility... a big one... u hve to be the leadr of ur family... u hv 2 take care ur wife... ur kids... but watching ur kids grow... its really worth it
@ssf12ster (488)
• India
10 Oct 07
yeah but not the way i wanted.he very troublesome sometimes.need to cry sometimes.
@jmafofo (359)
• South Africa
10 Sep 07
Well while I agree with comments that we are rewarded daily by the looks on our kids' faces and their smiles and that mothers have it tougher, the honest truth is that it is hard work. That is why some 'fathers' decide to be non-resident parents (through divorce) or just refusing to take responsibility for making the baby in the first place.
I would say it's a vocation (vocations have problems and hardships) but they are rewarding in that you will be doing what makes you happy.
@ssf12ster (488)
• India
10 Oct 07
i tried all vocations dear man!its not the question of divorce here.that is out of the question for me
@erickrubio (624)
• Philippines
6 Sep 07
Fatherhood is tough to handle because you are a responsible father.
@ConsiderateGuy (13)
• Malaysia
31 Oct 07
Hi ssf12ster, i can help you but i need to know how old your child is. Please reply.