Is it true that her height doesn't matter but her weight does?

He told you that! Oh my gosh that it bad. I would get offended and hurt too. I really don't think weight or height should matter when guys look at girls...but....sorry guys....weight usually does matter to them because that's how it is. Unfair. Although there are some genuinely nice guys out there....but only a few holding up the fort!

It was rude for him to say that. A nice, loving boyfriend wouldn't say such a thing to his girlfriend. I would have preferred to say "Would you like to go jogging with me?" Or "Would you like to play badminton this weekend?" Or "Let's not eat dessert so we can save money." And if you are 80 lbs, then he really is stupid because 80 lbs is really light! Now to answer your questions: Does height matter? For me it doesn't, because it's rare to find tall women anyway. Does weight matter? No, up to a certain point. I mean, everybody gains weight as we grow older. But a guy would appreciate it if his woman took good care of herself by not overeating and exercising regularly. You don't have to be the Paris Hilton or Jessica Alba type, just don't be morbidly obese. A little chubbiness is quite okay. As a matter of fact I don't even consider Paris Hilton to be sexy. I find her to be too skinny.

I understand a bf telling you that you have to lose weight in a constructive way (health purposes). But lose weight because he likes you that way and doesn't care how you feel? It's obvious he doesn't love you or care for your feeling. You are better off without him. You'll find the guy who is right for you and loves you for the person that you are.

If a guy told me that I was "getting chubby" and he doesn't like heavy girls, I would have left him right then. That is ridiculous, especially given the fact that you weigh only 80 pounds. Unless you are about 5 feet tall, that is quite a bit underweight. I would like to say that guys and gals should be able to look past both the issue of height and weight, but I know that isn't true. I prefer men that are taller than me, a difficult task considering that I am 5 feet and 11 inches, without the heels. As for the guys preferring slimmer women, many men have told me they prefer women that are more filled out, curvey if you will. So unless a lot of guys have lied to me, there might be hope for curvey women yet!

i'm a girl. i think most of boys like slim girls. some boys like lovely girl with a little fat. i hate too fat people, i think they should do more exercises to lose weight. it is bad for health. my brother was a slim boy, but now he is fatter and fatter, and i told him that if he can't lose weight, then i am not his sister, so he is working hard to lose weight. frankly, i am his sister too. for those fat girls, you don't have to lose weight for any boys, as long as you are healthy.

Yes mostly like their women slim and trim, even though they may put on weight. This is true of 99% of the men. Maybe one percent like their women plump. Actually they immediately see if we put on weight but are blind to the mirror which tells them that they are fatter than us. Isnt that funny ?

i think due to ex-bf's un wanted saying has made you to put your user name as heartsick. DO NOT WORRY . WEIGHT AND HEIGHT DOES NOT HAVE ANY ROLE IN RELATIONSHIP. may be of any kind . only mind and heart speaks with the relationships. and physical body does not have any room . pl bear it in mind . it is only the moments which will give you pleasure and not the physical body . have fun

To some extent I will admit to it. I like women in the fit range weight wise and though I am partial to women shorter than me to some extent it really doesn't matter that much. I have dated women who were slightly chunky and that was fine but being extremely overweight would matter to me. And since health is tied to weight to a great extent I would prefer a woman who in not too overweight and not too skinny.

They can't be like 4 or 5 inches shorter than me, that just weirds me out. For weight, I don't mind overweight but if it's to the point where I have to do everything for them. Then no, I ain't going that route. If honey were to become so big he just laid around in bed because he couldn't move. He'd be told to lose weight or risk losing me.