Do You Turn Your Kids Off Food?

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I was lazy this evening and took myself out for supper instead of cooking. A family was seated near me - 2 children, a Mom and Dad. One of the children - a boy around 10, was deciding what to order and was reading the particulars of a meal selection out loud: "tomatoes, green peppers, onions, bacon, mushrooms..." When his dad interrupted with, "Ewwwwwwe - you're NOT gonna order that with mushrooms, are you? That's gross!" The son ordered THAT selection when the waitress came around, and was very polite, while the dad piped up, "he wants that WITHOUT mushrooms." The son corrected, "with mushrooms, please." And the dad INSISTED to the waitress not to bring the order with mushrooms cooked into it. The boy got his meal without mushrooms. It was an egg dish, and a single meal, so I don't understand about the dad insisting on 'no mushrooms' like he did. I could understand if they were ordering a shared pizza or Nachos or something, but... I have seen parents comment negatively before in front of their kids about food choices, but I don't think I have ever witnessed a situation like the one I saw earlier this evening. Do YOU make comments about food you don't like in front of your children even when they might like the foods that you don't like?From the above situation, I wonder whether or not that boy will learn to 'not like' mushrooms - or if he'll stop ordering foods he likes when he's with his dad at restaurants. Of course, it is highly likely that I observed a situation that I don't have all the pieces of information about. Perhaps, at 10 years old, the boy has a food allergy or something that the father was regarding, on behalf of the son...however, the way that "Ewwwwwe..." was put forth, I'm not sure that the Dad didn't just think mushrooms are gross, while the son actually likes them. What do you think?