jealousy

jealously can never be very healthy. in very clear term, it is taken a something that is not at all very good. when he is checking the message at phone, it seems still he has some doubts about you. its not propper at all.

well your husband seems to be not giving his full trust in you and he's kinda possessive. and being jealous is not good in married couple because if you're jealous with your partner, that only means that you're insecure with him/her

Jealousy is not an overabundance of love, it is the opposite! Jealousy is insecurity in yourself, and lack of trust in your partner. My husband was jealous when we were first married, and he said it was from love... but I felt no love from it, I only felt that he thought I would lie to him! I am a very honest person, so that was an insult to me. But he had a bad relationship before he met me where the girl DID cheat... so I gave him some time to talk about that and get over it. We have been married 43 years, because he did begin to trust again. If he hadn't, I would have left him, because I won't tolerate being treated in a way I don't deserve. And you are entitled to privacy... if your husband will let you check his telephone, or his pockets, or his wallet, then he can check yours! Thats the fair thing to do... trust works both ways!