can two people from different cultures and dating habits come together?
By Rajni9
@Rajni9 (52)
Mauritius
September 7, 2007 10:38am CST
Can two people from different cultures and dating habits really come or stay together for life? i mean one may be used to dating and the other has never done it in his/her own life? i wonder if things can work between them. can they work it out? how? has anyone gone through this? please advice is needed...desperately.
2 responses
@wonderful1 (2075)
• China
8 Sep 07
it is up to both of them.
if they are really love each other, then they can overcome some difficulties.
1, they must know well languages of each other.
2, they have to learn cultures and habits for each other.
3, they have to realize the difficulties between them and they have a decision to overcome them.
as long as they work hard, and i think they will stay with each other.
@Shustme (33)
• United States
7 Sep 07
That is a very interesting question that I ask myself also, so if you get answers, I need them too...
I would like to think there is a possibility if you both are positive about it and accept the other person as they are and where they come from... There has to be more respect then anything else... and as I said accepting the other person as they come/as they are and where they come from, it does not mean you have to agree on many things, but this happens even with people in your own family/culture where they can not get along and even accept some things... You must know this is what you want because you must be ready for any difficulties that families may come up with regarding a union of this sort, so if you don't make your decision first, they will do it for you... and be honest with yourself and the other person that if they were to interfere what will you do/who will you follow... so figure this out before anyone gets anymore hurt...