will you worry about your bf/gf ?

China
September 8, 2007 8:36am CST
will you worry about your bf/gf when he/she doesn't get home in late night? and he/she doesnt' give you a call and his/her mobile power off. now i am in this situation.
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@alysya (159)
• Philippines
8 Sep 07
I may not only worry... I may even think he's already cheating... LOL... I've been through this situations a lot of times.. and I tell you use your intuition.. for me it would be accepted when he comes home very late... but to turn his cellphone off??? why?? is he hiding something?? what I do with this situation? I call his friends, call at his workplace... and worst,, trace him trough cellphone tracking, but you said the cellphone is off... so there's no way.. talk to him.. If you sense that he is sincere then maybe he is... If not... well.. do what you have to do.. :)
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• Canada
8 Sep 07
a little less than 48 hours ago my fiance became my husband. Last night one of our neighbours left her car opened and it appeared to be "abandoned" when all that had happened was she got sidetracked and forgot about her car. My husband was worried about her. I told him that now he knows how I feel when he goes out somewhere without telling me, and stays late.
@patgalca (18366)
• Orangeville, Ontario
9 Sep 07
Congrats, Danish!
@patgalca (18366)
• Orangeville, Ontario
9 Sep 07
The only thing reliable about my husband is his unreliability. If he would just show up on time (or heaven forbid early!) I wouldn't have to worry. He goes golfing once a week. He makes promises to be back by a certain time and then doesn't show up. I get more livid than worried. Then I phone the guys he golfed with to see if they are home yet. Most of the time I call his cousin and he is home and totally wasted. Which, unfortunately, means that my husband is drinking and driving. NOW I worry. His cousin lives about 45 minutes from here and my husband is driving from there to here while intoxicated? I have every right to be worried, and mad. My children are witnesses to this idiocy and thankfully know that it is wrong! I never ever worry that my husband is cheating on me. I know he would never do that. It's his priorities that are mixed up and get me riled. We don't have cell phones so I can't check up on him that way. If he had one and I found that it was turned off I would be livid. Hello? Two kids at home. Do you care about them? What if something happened to one of them and we can't get a hold of him? Sorry, but I think most men are pretty self-absorbed and don't think twice about what they are doing or who they may be hurting or leaving worried. I feel for you because I know when I am in that situation I am usually spending all that time in the bathroom. My stomach acts up when I worry. I hope you hear from him soon and that he has a good explanation.
• United States
8 Sep 07
Yes i do it all the time! my husband calls me a worry wart and tells me i worry way too much. but besides the fact that everyone has a tendency to worry, i have more reasons to worry about him as well. he works second shift and goes in at 2pm... he will work unti after midnight and some days til 6 the next morning... when he doesnt get enough sleep he tends to nodd off at the wheel.. he has doen it berfore and gotten into an accident once totaled the car and evertyhint... HE doesnt drive any slower then he normal y would on a snowy blizzard he will continiue to do 5 over the speed limit when he should be going under it... at leat 10!most times i will call his work and they will tell me oh hes left an hour ago which freakls me out even more because we only live 30 minutes away! so then ireally start worrying, one time i even called the hospital looking for him!! lOL yes i am a worry wart!
@leha1512 (81)
• Brunei Darussalam
4 Oct 07
What happen to me, if he is my bf I am not worry much, but there is a worry. After I gor married my boyfriend, I am worry too much, not because with other girl, but just incase their is an accident or whatever. What happens, my thought was totally wrong, he is not involved in any problem, but with a girl.
• Malaysia
14 Sep 07
hi, wonderful1..i will worry about my girlfriend lo. if i busy , may be i will forget to reply her message or anything.i will ask about her why no answer my call or why not go back last nite...