if you could change anything or your partner or yourself what would it be?
@exclusively_rinku (891)
India
September 8, 2007 4:36pm CST
hello mylotters,
there may be something that you don't like about your significant other,may be some habit or trait or anything like that.even about yours own.do you or your significant other have any such irritating habits?what do you think are those things? and would you like to change them-both yours and your partner's? lets say it in a different way.if you could change anything of your significant other or yourself what would it be?
3 responses
@gorgzlady1904 (84)
• Philippines
9 Sep 07
If there's something irritating about my boyfriend, it would be his laziness for a date. He's a homebody type and Im an outgoing one. He's quite lazy at times whenver I ask him to go to the beach with me, but for some reasons he would just say yes and then it wouldn't happen at all!
I would like him to change that habit of him and also the habit of promising, and realized in the end that it's going to be broken. That's all I have to say.
@exclusively_rinku (891)
• India
9 Sep 07
hey gorgzlady i think all men have that habit of promising and then forgetting.my bf also does that most often.but then he makes such cute actions and reactions that sweeps me away from my feet.i hope god is listening that and we would change it for you.
@sweetlady207 (60)
• Philippines
9 Sep 07
hello everyone,
well I'm happy with my bf now and I don't see anything that needs to be chage,but if ever things turns out different after marriege then I must say that I wouldn't demand for it, because loves has no rules love,acceptance and communication still the best way keep the relationship going strong.but then again there is always an exceptional, if you partner is abusive then that is totally different he/she diffinately needs change.
@exclusively_rinku (891)
• India
9 Sep 07
i agree with you sweetlady207.unconditional love has no bounds.but then life isn't smooth always.you have to compromise a lot at times.and if you accept everything gracefully then you won't have any problems.but not everybody have that capability.
@khazeemee (288)
• Philippines
9 Sep 07
if i have special someone right now, im gonna make sure that i will love him as he is, whatever our differences, and even his imperfections, so i would rather not gonna change anything to him..
@exclusively_rinku (891)
• India
9 Sep 07
i hope you don't have to.but with the pass of time we realize something wrong that starts boggling us.i have faced this situation.i was exactly talking like you.but when i am into a relationship now,i have to compromise a lot.and at somepoint you wish you could change something.
