how do you recover from 2 miscarriages?

Its really sad to hear all these happening. For those of you who have had this is that don't lose heart. Believe in GOD, there will be a happy day on your way soon. Well, even one of my friend had miscarriage twice. Actually I was very unhappy hearing that. I'm newly married and currently we are not planning for family but I'm curious to know why such things happen. I know it is very hard for the affected ones here to share but, could be helpful if you let us know if there was anything wrong from your end for these and were there any Doctor suggestions on that.

You just have to find the strength in yourself. I know someone who had several miscarriages. I don't know the exact count, and I'm not going to ask, but it was at least 4. She went to the doctor for a battery of tests to find out why she kept miscarrying. They figured things out and now she has a 1 year old son.

in my opinion, when things like that happens. it's just Mother Nature (or God, depending on who you are) My sister had an Abortion and when she did want to get pregnant she had an early miscarriage. I think it was in the 4th month or so. But all things ended up well. The misscarriage did put a strain on her and her fiance. But he was very insecure with their relationship. he had an ego and she made more money and had the higher education, which lead him to cheat on her and get a younger woman pregnant and was forced to marry the girl. well, it all ended up well, she found a better guy latter down the line and is now having her 2nd baby boy next week. it all takes time. have hope that it will happen. if it was meant to be, then it will be.

I am truly sorry to hear of your misfortune. I truly understand your heart break and fear. I have had 4 miscarriages, a tubal pregnancy and I had to have an abortion from the strain on my body and either my not making it or another miscarriage. I have one living child. It is not easy and the fear does not go away, you always worry throughout your pregnancy, but as the months go by you tend not to worry as much. You just keep trying and it will happen. Don't give up. I have a wonderful 13 year old and I wouldn't give up a moment of heartache or pain, because she is the biggest blessing in my life. The biggest advice is to have faith in your higher power, whatever that is, God, Buddha, whoever. You just have to hand it over and let come what comes.

Im sorry to hear that.Ive had 2 miscarriages before.The last one 3 months ago and im over it.I dont want to sound like a bad mother,but these things happen for a reason and its not because of bad ovaries(like someone here said to me and im still mad about the comment).Its because there was something wrong when its starting to form&grow.We have a natural system in us women for stuff like this that when our body finds that something will not be o.k.then it will naturally get rid of it.I understood why it happened to me.I lost one at 7 1/2 weeks,then 1 month later i became pregnant with my daughter and there was nothing wrong with her.The last one i lost at 9 weeks and the doctors said it was deformed,thats why my body rejected it.Its very hard at first and we are trying again until i do become pregnant even if it means loosing more.Im willing to take that chance to have 1 more.You just have to be strong and say to yourself,i will try until i have my little one here in my arms to kiss and hold.God will hear you and answer your prayer.:):):)