This is simple even an Ape could figure it our.

I now what you mean. I have a big list of friends and most of them don't seem to respond to my discussions. Today I went through my friends list and checked when the last time they logged into mylot and the ones that have not been here for over a month I have deleted. So I found about 10 out of 75 that I deleted. I am going to be more careful who I pick to be my friend from now on. If they don't post very often, can tell by their number, I will not accept their friendship. I am also going to go through them and check how many of my discussions they have responded to and if I find any that haven't been responding to any I am going to delete them also. It would be nice if they responded even once in awhile, but when they don't ever respond, what's the use having them on my list. I want friedns that respond and help me and I help them, to make more money. Isn't that what this site is all about. Friends helping each other.

I find myself coming back to mylot less and less as the time has passed, just looking through some of my past discussions I see that I have not responded or replied to many comments that people have left behind for me. This discussion has actually given me a bit of a kickstart to get back on and become a proper user once again. Its not that you pick the wrong friends, just maybe your friends have other things going on in their lives and don't get the chance to write. Give them a chance and please forgive those of us that have been a little neglectful recently. Merry Christmas all, J.

I don`t know why but I tried to comment on a few discussions and it kept booting me out . I`m sad to hear your having that problem , I haven`t been on here alot where Zues has been sick then I was seems to go back and forth between us ... Have you gotten many replies latley ?? I hope people will pick up their pace a bit and start ...

I know what you mean why waste your time with these friends if they won`t waste theirs

I have a lot of friends in my list, but a handful of reply in my post. dunno, but for me I respond to those who responds to my discussions firts, either they are friends or not. If I find that they are not yet in my friends list I invite them, then after responding to those who responded to me, I normally go respond to the discussions my friends made. then post some new discussions or go to other items.

Can you tell me you answer everyone of your friends disucssion? I try to but I am 300 discussions behind and typing as fast as I can. I am not being ignorant I have been busy making money on other sites. I have several other sites that pay better than myLot. I am not trying to be a bad friend I have just been busy. I am sorry if your feelings are getting hurt.

I always try to look for my freinds discussions,but as I am at work ,I sometimes get distracted and forget where I was and miss a bunch,but I always try to get back to then when I can. I am also a strang charactor when it comes to interests,I find myself being almost opposit of the majority of people,I have a very dry sence of humour and feel that most things people beleive is right,is wrong to me. Not sure this is understandable,but go figure.lol

I am not sure. I don't start that many discussions. I do try to respond to subjects that interest me. Lately some have not been replying back when I respond. A lot of times I just reply to subjects in my interest and not necessarily on my friends list. If have don't have much to contribute then why ?

I have several pages of friends. I don't know whether they do or do not comment on my Posts, and what difference could it possibly make! Anyway I am commenting on your discussion.....a true friend is one who likes you despite your achievements!