Where do you want to die?
@xfallenxlostx (2074)
United States
September 9, 2007 3:04am CST
Someone has already posed the question of how, but that doesn't interest me as much as the where. So i ask all of you: given the vhoice of anywhere at all, where would you choose to take your final breath?
As for me, there are a few places i would have to think about. The problem with a few of them is how the death would affect other people.
i have always wanted to die while dancing in the pit at an AFI show. i am always so much happier while at an AFI show, and dancing in the pit is something i absolutely love to do. i feel the unity and energy from the band and the crowd. i feel the love and passion for the music. It would just be an elating way to go. The problem is, i know how it would affect the band (who happen to be my friends) and a lot of the people in the crowd. A lot of them are in the Despair Faction (which honestly is a family) and are my friends.
i also would love to die in the arms of my 2 very very very best friends, Jason (fromthemirror) and Sarah. i love them very much and i know they love me as well, and being held by both of them as i leave this life would be peaceful to me. However, i know it would kill them to watch me take my final breaths, and i don't want them to have that image burned into their minds.
So, i guess i would have to choose to die alone in my bed. That way nobody that i love has to witness it and i will at least be comfortable. i can slip away without worrying that the people i love are watching. That would probably be best for them, and they are far more important than my comfort.
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@xfallenxlostx (2074)
• United States
11 Sep 07
Well, then you must really love golf.
SUdden deaths are easier than slow deaths. i have experienced both becaus ei was in a tragic car accident and was in the hospital for 2 years with constant drama, including dying many times. i can tell you what it feels like to die both slowly and quickly. Quickly is a bit easier because you don't necessarily know what is happening, so you don't have the chance to really feel as bad that someone you love is watching you die.
@xfallenxlostx (2074)
• United States
13 Sep 07
You are right there. No pain at all. You just kinda...drift away...
@frankwangjing (3)
• China
9 Sep 07
I want to look for a local being far away from a relative to die,donot allow them to hurt a sorrow,exactly as my silent coming,silent working,I am all all with me line of sight of disppearing but disppearing ,disppearing in people.
@xfallenxlostx (2074)
• United States
11 Sep 07
i think i know what you are trying to say here...you don't want to die where your loved ones will have to see it. i completely understand. If i am way off from what you were saying here, i'm sorry.
@webeishere (36313)
• United States
9 Sep 07
Okay, I ran away from home at 13 years old and joined a carnival. I traveled with the carnival and different circuses for many many years. If I could I would actually choose to die with the wild animals in a circus as I trained some cats and elepohants. they are more like brothers and sisters to me than my true siblings are. Sound strange to you? In a more normal feeling I would prefer to die in my own house with my family at my side as there sall the love there in your own house.
HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
@xfallenxlostx (2074)
• United States
11 Sep 07
Wow, Bob i didn't know you traveled with a circus. How exciting! What an adventurous life you have lead. That doesn't sound strange to me at all. It sounds beautiful in its own way.