Do you put your elbow(s) on the table when eating?

@peanutjar (5198)
Canada
September 10, 2007 4:10pm CST
Where you told when you were young not to put your elbow on the table when you ate?It doesnt bother you to do it,because its your own home.
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• United States
10 Sep 07
If I am at a table I try not to. Good manners were instilled in me, and I still use them throughout my life. At home we don't eat at the table, so I don't have to worry about the elbows as my plate is usually in my lap lol.
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@peanutjar (5198)
• Canada
10 Sep 07
I guess you dont have to worry about the elbows on the table for sure.:)
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@kristi73 (257)
• United States
10 Sep 07
Yes we were always told this as kids and I guess I am so used to it. That I do find it annoying when I see people do this, I guess cause most of the time the are holding thier head up like they are just so exhausted they can't stand it. I think it is just plan rude.
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@peanutjar (5198)
• Canada
10 Sep 07
Yes,i find it rude too.
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• Canada
11 Sep 07
Hi peanutjar! As a kid my brother and I were raised to keep our elbows off the table, and honestly I'm glad we were. I think it's rude and impolite to do that at the dinner table. I will also raise my daughter to be well mannered and not put her elbows up on the table at dinner.
@peanutjar (5198)
• Canada
11 Sep 07
Hello!I agree that children need to have some kind of politeness in this world.Our daughter makes sure that we do too!:)
@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
10 Sep 07
oh god, my brother does that. everytime he eats, he always put his elbow on the table(both of them) and he never lift it above the table either. I hate to see him do that, but what can I do because it is his habit and I am the youngest one, so I can't say anything.
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• United States
10 Sep 07
It seem to be that is a lazy habit :)
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@peanutjar (5198)
• Canada
10 Sep 07
Is your brother quite a bit older and bigger?If so,i wouldnt say anything too.He,he.LOL:)
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@eprado (1467)
• Philippines
12 Sep 07
Hello peanutjar, No I don't put my elbow on the table when eating. Yes, when I was young we were always told not to put our elbow on the table while we are eating because it is not right and considered a bad table manner. For me, I think its right that we should not put pour elbow on the table when eating for it also help our body posture by keeping us sitting with our back straight and not slouching on the table. :-)
@peanutjar (5198)
• Canada
12 Sep 07
Its knid of hard to break a habit like this from doing it all these years.I do not do it,but there are times when i slip up and find my elbow there,lol.:)
• India
11 Sep 07
sometimes i was told that, but lol, it's so comfrtable to sometimes just put one's elbow on the table or just sit listless with one's hand on the chin and think and play with the soup. lol. smiles, apple.
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@peanutjar (5198)
• Canada
11 Sep 07
I find it uncomfortable too!It reminds me of the days of kings and queens eating at a big long table like 20 feet long.lol.:)
• India
11 Sep 07
lol. "i know your highness".lol. you are something, very nice, keep it up, smiles always, apple.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
10 Sep 07
Lol I do when I eat at a table but I more often eat with the plate on my lap lol I rest the plate on a cushion I prefer it that way
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@peanutjar (5198)
• Canada
10 Sep 07
Ive tried the eating thing in the living room sitting on the couch,but my plate somehow always ended up on the floor.My daughter likes to jump on the couch and tease,so the dog knows this and sits and waits for the plate or a piece to come flying!lol.I learnt to sit at the table then.:)
@AmbiePam (92711)
• United States
10 Sep 07
My mom taught us well, because I never put my elbows on the table, no matter where I eat. It's just a habit to refrain from doing that. I think my sister is the same way. We were taught that so young, that it just stayed with us.
@peanutjar (5198)
• Canada
11 Sep 07
Hi AmbiePam!I forget alot lately,i think im starting to slack in that department.:)
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@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
13 Sep 07
Nope, my Dad was really strict about things like that and it still sticks with me. AT PEACE WITHIN ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~
@matte5 (1913)
• Sweden
10 Sep 07
I newer do that because I was told as a kind to sitt right att the table and newer hawe the elbow on it when eating.
@peanutjar (5198)
• Canada
10 Sep 07
My grandparents were the same way,but i have to admit i do slip up sometimes and do it.lol:)
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@jhanna (334)
• Philippines
11 Sep 07
Yes, I do put my elbow on the table when I eat. I just feel comfortable doing it. But I don't do it when I am in a restaurant or a formal gathering. I also slouch when I ate. I know this is bad manners but I just do it.. Hehehehehe
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@peanutjar (5198)
• Canada
11 Sep 07
I do that too.I say to myself,its my house and i can do what i want!!I even put my feet up on the chair in front of me.oops.But in public i like to make the polite girl.he,he.I