Your ex boyfriend called and want to meet you.
By ciades
@ciades (1623)
Philippines
September 10, 2007 9:18pm CST
Ow, My friend asked for my advice if she will meet her ex boyfriend. Her ex called up and want to meet her. And this guy is already married. So i told her its up to her coz i know she know her limitations. Meet as friends and decide not to meet again.
So, what can you say? And what will you do if you have this situation?
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4 responses
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
11 Sep 07
I would not go. I don't think it is appropriate for her to meet her ex-boyfriend who is a married man now. He has no business wanting to meet with her really. She needs to put herself in his wifes shoes and think how she would feel if she knew her husband was wanting to see his ex-girlfriend. I know I would not approve or feel comfortable. It is ultimately her decision but that is my opinion. I would not go.
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@ciades (1623)
• Philippines
11 Sep 07
Supposedly that's what i want to tell her. But i came to the point that it's still her decisions. this guy still madly inlove with her. Actually this guy chosen her but my friend did not accepted it coz that time the girl who is his wife right now was got fragnant. I know my friend she know her limitation. Hoping and i pray she will be strong to control her emotions. She really decided to meet her ex. But to end the discussions with not seeing each other anymore.
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@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
12 Sep 07
Well I truly hope that she finds the right answers. he may be madly in love with her but it still does not change the fact that he is married to someone else. It is a sad situation in deed.
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@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
23 Oct 07
Thanks for the best response rating. I am very grateful! I really hope your friend made the right decision! I am very curious as to know what happened!
@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
11 Sep 07
I see nothing wrong with meeting up with an ex as long as the parting is amiable. Many ex part as friends. We do get together with our friends (same or different gender). So even if both parties are currently attached, they can still meet up as friends. It doesn't mean that meeting up will mean a betrayal.
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@ciades (1623)
• Philippines
12 Sep 07
you have a point on the whyaskq. It is depend on the situation. If your current girl friend know about it and it is ok for her/him then its not bad. And if you are not hiding something. And if you can't hurt someone. Sometimes we do such things only to avoid any possibilities might be happen. And we are people who have different perceptions on that matter. There are some partners don't like you/us to do that kind of a thing. And to avoid any misunderstanding must better not to do it.
@cefaz_21 (2596)
• Philippines
11 Sep 07
When I was preparing for my wedding, my ex boyfriend keeps on calling me and asking for dinner, as I consider him a friend I agreed but I invited my then soon to be husband and introduced them to each other.
After that, he was still calling but I made it clear to him that I'm not gonna change my mind about getting married,because he keeps on asking that.
I don't see anything wrong about seein an ex as long as you know your stand and your secure of what and how you feel for him.
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@wonderful1 (2075)
• China
11 Sep 07
if my ex-boyfriend want to meet me, then i can't refuse him, because i take him as a relative. after all, we stay together for 4 years, he is a part of my memory, so i can't and i don't want to forget him, and i hope to know how is everything going about him, and i hope he can find a good wife and live a happy life.
if my boyfriend or his girlfirend doesn't like to see that we meet each other, then we will meet him again when i know he is ok.
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