How would you tell your suitor without any WORDS that you hate him/her???
By tines2512
@tines2512 (326)
Philippines
5 responses
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
11 Sep 07
lol.i guess everyone will get hurt if ever you'll tell them that you hate them..
well..i guess,if someone's courting me,and if i feel that i dont like him at all,i'll just tell him the truth..but in a nice way..i believe that when it comes to that,you really need to be honest and never take advantage with the kindness of the person.and i dont want to give him the hope,where in the long run,i'll just busted him.lol.
i know that he'll get hurt..but he'll get hurt more if we'll be together even if i dont like him at all..
and truth hurts..but im sure he'll overcome it and will soon forget me..^__^
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
11 Sep 07
Without words? You just walk away. when ever they are talking to you, just walk away. But to really clear the air and make sure they know that you are not interested, you need to use words.You have to tell them politely that you don't like or love them.
@cornelio03 (152)
• Philippines
11 Sep 07
They are a lot of ways to put your message through.
Don't answer his calls.
Turn down his invitations.
If he starts a conversation, excuse yourself and tell him you have urgent things to attend to.
In short, limit your interactions. If your suitor still persists, tell him that you are in love with someone else.
@madzie09 (278)
• Philippines
11 Sep 07
i guess he'll understand when you stay away from him. it is only natural for him to be hurt because he about to be rejected but that's the nature of loving. he'll understand that somehow. try to avoid him to prevent him in having hope for any chance.
@madebyrobyn (616)
• Australia
11 Sep 07
I guess the best way is by body language. You need to show the other person that you don't find them physically attractive. Make sure that you don't make any unneccessary body contact with them, do not spend too much time with them alone, do not pay any more attention to them than you would any other friend. I think that eye contact is important too - do not stare into their eyes longer than you have to, don't allow them to think that you share a special connection more than you do your other friends. It is a terrible position to be in, it is hard when someone likes you and you are not interested at all. I wish you much luck in letting them know how you feel but if my ideas don't work you might have to resort to using words and just being brutally honest - yes sometimes the truth hurts but it is a necessary evil.