I'm sick of lazy men!

Whew! You said it right dear. I am lucky that my boyfriend knows how to do the chores. lol. Likewise, I am disgusted and annoyed with guys who doe not know anything. And that is actually the main reason why women now a days prefer to stay single or single moms than marrying someone who adds to burden. It maybe true that women are the one who has to do the chores of the house, however, it is untrue that men relieves himself from doing nothing in the house. Men who are lazy are really a heck. Men who have no goals in life are undeserving.

Good advice to the mothers of young sons but in this day and age I would hope they'd already know that! My advice to you is let your boyfriend know you're not his slave and you're not about to spend the rest of your life acting as though you were. That's if you're in a relationship you expect to be long-term. I hope you're not offended by my unsolicitated advice...LOL Guys really can be good at cooking and cleaning and it sure doesn't kill them! My husband cooks quite a bit and he's better at cleaning than I am...lol...and my son-in-law and my brother do alot of that stuff too for their wives. Lots of men are like that these days...hint...they are out there! Annie

if you want your man do do something you have to go on strike thats what my mom does and it usually works they ussually get tired of not having anything to eat thats homecooked or the mess in the house that they start cleaning it. me and my mom both have the same expectations of a man and thats he takes out the garbage (provided he's working) and does the cat litter if theres a cat and we do the rest. unless we're having a bad day then they have to help a little more. we always tell them if they don't take out the garbage we don't clean the house. so if they want a clean house they have to take out the garbage it usually works

You are absolutely right,dreamy1!I'm sorry to hear that you have such a lazy boyfriend.My bf doesnt know how to cook but he's willing to help me clean our house,which I am not good at.Sometimes I feel I am lucky to have him around.As a man,he should take the half responsibility to take care of his family besides his own career.Then I thought he can be called a qualified husband,what do you think?

Well... if he is your boyfreind.. you dont really need to be doing all that stuff. You are not his wife right?? But when he want some, he expects it right? My boyfriend... when he ain't acting right, he just dont get none. As far as all that cooking and all, I remind him that I am not his wife. Now if he was taking care of me, that would be a different story.

Hi Dreamy, I hope I dont upset you any by what Im about to say....not intended!! I think that it sounds like you rushed into this relationship. Of course I dont know, so insted I will begin by asking you did you discuss this with him before you committed to a relationship with him? I mean how would you know what he would be like or how he feels on doing these chores unless you ask!? It does seem that most men do "assume" that the woman will be doing these things. Me and my husband talked about this kind of thing. I knew before hand that he would help me by doing the chores of the home, and on occassion he would cook as well as clean up. I dont even have to ask him, he will offer me help or ask me what can I do honey. I think people seem to only use visual attraction as to the person they are going to be in a relationship with. I mean, his character and traits should be part of the attraction. I am very attracted to my husband phsyically, dont get me wrong, but when we discussed certain things his point of view and his character made him that much more attractive to me. Sounds like he is not the man for you, as you cant get him to do the things that will make you happy. Perhaps you should move on and be more investigative before you committ in a relationship as you have here. Good luck!! xx

I don't mean to sound mean or anything but if you're not happy with him then why are you still with him? You can't force someone to change and be the way you want them to be so if he's not making you happy then leave. From the sounds of it he's not gonna change and so unless you're willing to just suck it up and do all the stuff you say he doesn't do its time to move on.

I LIVE WITH A COUPLE ONE IS MY BOYFRIEND AND THE OTHER IS HIS BROTHER I MOVED IN WITH THEM IF i COULD TAKE PICTURES OF THIS HOUSE IT WOULD FLOOR YA i DO NOT WHERE i COULD BEGAN TO GET IT ORGANIZED AND CLEAN AND NO ONE SEEMS TO CARE ABOUT IT THERE IS STUFF OUT SIDE THAT CAN BE CLEANED UP AND HAUL TO THE DUMP I DO NOT KNOW HOW MANY TIMES i HAVE WASH DOWN THE STOVE CAUSE WHEN HIS BROTHER COOKS HE SPILLS THINGS ALL OVER AND LEAVES IT IF i EVER WIN THE LOTTERY i AM LEAVING THIS PLACE TAKING MY BOYFRIEND WITH ME CAUSE i KNOW HE WOULD DO MORE IF HIS BROTHER WERE TO DO HIS SHARE i STOP DOING THE HOUSE WORK TOO ALTHOUGH i LIKE LIVING IN A CLEAN PLACE AT THE MOMENT I HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO LIVE THIS WAY

Dump him. As a guy, whose close friends are also mostly guys, I can say that there are a large group of men who do know how to do their own laundry, cook, clean and take care of themselves in general. There are guys who can do this and keep up their marks at school and work out regularly and maintain a romantic streak. In short - there are better guys than the fellow you're describing. So stop taking comfort in what you know, and find someone better.

,,,as far as i know about men,hmf! they dont have to do house chores,,it is not their job,i mean it is not responsibilities,for me,men have their own priority like how to make money,how to improve their way of leaving,to make life more convenient,to satify hes needs not only to him but also to hes family,their goal is TO LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST,,,ok?doing laundry,washing dishes etc,etc,thats womens resposibilities,,,,,that should be your priority as girl,,,BEAR THAT IN MINE,,boy is boy,girl is girl,,