Cheating On You?
@GalateaGoddess (59)
September 12, 2007 1:53pm CST
Wat would you do if your boyfriend [or Girlfriend], the guy [or girl] you're in a long term relationship with, cheats on you and you find out about it? And if they ask for a second chance, would you be willing to trust them again the way you did before? Or would you always have that instinctive distrust of them?
3 responses
@ScarletAlston (2693)
• United States
12 Sep 07
when my ex cheated on me, I was done with him..I knew he was doing it, and when it was confirmed, I was done with him..I know that if he cheated on me once he will cheat on me again...He didn't even ask for a second chance, he just assumed that because we had been together so long, I would just believe that he wouldn't do it again and that wasn't the case..it was over...
@GalateaGoddess (59)
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13 Sep 07
So, what you're sayin is , no second chances? Ever? Not even if you truly loved the guy and you were pretty convinced that he loved you too and that he'd cheated on you just that once? And if he really wanted to try to make it work again and he was begging for a second chance. Would you trust him again?
@ScarletAlston (2693)
• United States
15 Sep 07
my thing is, if you loved me, you wouldn't disespect me by cheating on me..and if I think you wouldn't do it again, I would be a fool...especially if I let you get away with it..I don't care about our history or how much you mightve claimed you love me...if you really did, you wouldn't cheat..
@marshall_blake2000 (304)
• United States
13 Sep 07
People find out some times that a second chance at trust is hard to come be. Not that that person you are with can not be trusted, but rathere you can not trust them so maybe its just up to the peson doing the trusting.
@GalateaGoddess (59)
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13 Sep 07
I know what you mean. I can't trust the guy but he seems sincere when he asks for a second chance. But I cant trust him. Literally can't. Not that I won't. I'm just incapable of bringing myself to trust him now. Maybe that'll change over time. Who knows...
@khazeemee (288)
• Philippines
13 Sep 07
if i had a boyfriend and found out that he cheats on me, i would easily forgave him but i don't think that my trust can be re-build that easily, it takes time . . so i might not offer him a relationship that we used to be, but i can only be his friend.. trust is one of the biggest factor in a relationship, and if he breaks it,putting it up again might be hard for you so, just take another way . .
