i need ur advice.........
By lisa_wxy
@lisa_wxy (393)
China
September 12, 2007 7:49pm CST
our national day is coming soon,and there will be seven days for holiday.i've never gotten together with my parents for almost a year.u know how much i would like to go home,but concidently my bf's father' birthday party will be held during these days.it is appropriate to go back with my bf.can i go there and celebrate his birthday together with my bf,or just go my own home.by the way,our homes are really far away from each other.and it is only 7-day holiday.
i am really confused.
thanks for sharing.
3 responses
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
13 Sep 07
Well Lisa, i am sure Advise of William is good, if its once a year even then you should go home and meet ur parents. And sure u can discuss matter with ur boy friend and i am sure he will understand it, Other thing i know that how much will be trafiic load on chinese holidays so its really hard to go at both places.
So just relax discus with him and decide calmly, take care
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
14 Sep 07
Hi Lisa, so dont get panic as u still have time b4 vacations start on Oct 07,2007. Relax ur mind, think about iy and make decesion. Dont let it distrub u for more days. I am sure u will be happy after u make ur mind.
Traffic, hope fully u will get ticket of nice seat well in time.
take care
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
13 Sep 07
Morning,Lisa. It is hard to make both ends meet. I think that you can tell your boyfriend how you miss your parents at home and look forward to seeing them during the National Day and you can also tell him that you would like to be present at his father's birthday to see what he will say. Then you can make a discussion together after you discussion. This way you are showing your respect to him. Why not have a try?
@lisa_wxy (393)
• China
14 Sep 07
well,thanks my dear friend william.
i should have a try.
i am considering my bf's parents feeling,you know,last year we spent spring festival with them,they like me a lot,and treat me very well. i am afraid my absence would hurt their feelings.anyway,my parents miss me too.
you are right,i must choose.
@thefortunes (2367)
• Netherlands
13 Sep 07
Hi Lisa_why, in such a case I'll talk to my BF and ask if he si willing to go with me to my parents after being with him to his dad for 3 of the 7 days. maybe it is not doable, but I'll try to work it out this way. if it cannot be done, than you must make the choice from your heart ;) Be well and may you make the right choice :)
