Unfaithful Boyfriend

Philippines
September 12, 2007 11:23pm CST
Hi, Have you ever experienced being cheated by your boyfriend? It really hurts a lot. I do love my boyfirend so much but then 1 day I saw a text message from his phone from his other girl...=( Can you please help me how can I recover? I don't know what to do. I love him but he's just hurting me. I know he loves me too that's why I can't believe that he did cheat me.
1 response
@indiandevil (2410)
• Canada
13 Sep 07
I have been through a situation much like yours, and I must say this, even though you may not like it one bit. If he is cheating now, he will never stop. Also a guy who cheats, doesn't really love you as much as you believe he does. I am sorry, but this is the honest truth. I have heard so many girls say, oh he did it because of something I did, over and over again, each time they get hurt a little more. Why put your self through such pain? Don't you think you deserve a man who loves you so much, that he doesn't need to cheat to make him happy. A man who doesn't put his needs over your feelings. What I am saying is if this man loved you why would he put you through this. I think you may have a lot to think about what you want, because if you let him get away with it once he is going to think its okay for him to cheat on you because you will always forgive and forget.