Do you have pending requests in Mylot?
By youless
@youless (112496)
Guangzhou, China
21 responses
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
13 Sep 07
I have 11 pending friend requests. 10 of them are members who are my referrals who signed up and then never actually did anything, so I should probably just give up and delete those requests. The other one is one I just requested yesterday I think, and someone I feel I really have a lot in common with, so I very much hope she accepts me.
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
13 Sep 07
I have like 49 inactive referrals, and one active one. lol
I've been here since January, and no matter how much I try, none of the people I refer ever actually stick around. Most of them never even post once, which I don't understand. Why bother signing up and then never posting?
I keep trying to get some of my offline friends on here, but none of them have signed up yet. *sighs* I'll keep trying.
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@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
13 Sep 07
I have 3 friends waiting for me to respond if I want them as a friend or not. I usually will go on the pending friends once a week and add them to my friends. I never turn anyone down. I figure the more friends the better:)
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@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
13 Sep 07
They are probably too busy to approve you. I note from my experience that when I get to mylot and am sure I dont have enough time on the computer, I get too involved posting a few discussions before I leave the computor. During such pressures, I fail to approve my friends.
@AmbiePam (92789)
• United States
13 Sep 07
I'm sorry you are sad. I'd go ahead and delete them. I've had a few pending requests when I first joined mylot, and they never added me. So after a few days I deleted the request. Kind of like cleaning house. But it doesn't have to be about you. Perhaps they don't think they share enough in common with you to reply to your discussions well. I have rejected a friendship request before because I knew I would never be able to add anything to their discussions, and I didn't want to hurt their feelings in the future because of it.
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@rainbow2007star (920)
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13 Sep 07
No till now i donn't have any and in the future i hope my friend will accept me all
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
13 Sep 07
Hi youless! Now that I have read you topic about pending requests, I did try to check if I have some. Luckily I don't have any. As for your pending requests, maybe they haven't checked theirs yet or if ever they did, just think that it is not your loss but theirs because I am sure glad that I have you as my friend here in mylot. Take care and have a nice day.
@sweetgirl_k1 (3972)
• United States
14 Sep 07
As of right now I don't have any pending requests. I look at the friends tab up top each time I log on to see if anyone has asked me to add them. Then I approve or deny it right then.
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@cefaz_21 (2596)
• Philippines
14 Sep 07
I used to have some pending friends request before,What I do is this, I checked thier profile page and see if they logged in recently,if they don't logged in I'll give them some more time,but when I see that they're here and they most probably knew I have requested them to be ny friend and ignored it,I'll go and cancel that pending request.
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@vashstampede992000 (2560)
• Philippines
14 Sep 07
Hi there youless, well as of now, i have no pending friend requests, as i approved them recently.
Because everytime i see that there's some people that wants to add me as their friend then i always approved them and start to send them message and comments to say thank you for the add and hoping to hear more from them soon.
And then, that's the friendship begins here in mylot.
Have a nice day ahead from Kiko and happy posting and earning here in Mylot.
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@saisudhamani (250)
• India
13 Sep 07
When ever I see pending request for friend I immedietly approve it and i never hesitate and see.I accepts all friends request.
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@eprado (1467)
• Philippines
14 Sep 07
Hello youless, I don't usually check my pending request for me to be added on their friends list. But whenever I received one I add them up immediately. Maybe some of those whom you requested has not been back to log-in mylot yet or they are busy. Don't worry there are a lot more people here in mylot that will be happy to add you to their friends list. Take care and have a great weekend. :-)
@sherrir101 (3670)
• Malinta, Ohio
13 Sep 07
I had three pending friends but just deleted them It has been 5 months so I figured, they weren't on anymore.
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
13 Sep 07
I have 2 that are still pending from a few months ago. i don't really request people as friends. I answer a lot of discussions and then they just add me. Are the people you requested active? the one i requested hasn't signed in since like a month before i requested her.
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@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
14 Sep 07
No I don't have any pending requests. It is not often that I do request friends as most of the time they request me.
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@yanstill (1490)
• China
14 Sep 07
i have some too,but i forgot when i pended my requests.actually i seldom add a friend to my list unless i felt very good about her/him.
if they don't add you,why not delete your requests,and add others instead.or maybe they didnt see your request,otherwise if they dont want to add you,they will delete it.
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@kitty1234 (1476)
• United States
13 Sep 07
I try to approve my friends list as soon as I receive them. It is to the benefit of all to add to your friends list, the more friends you have, then we can all share discussions. I do not approve people who seem to have angry comments or discussions. I try very hard to keep up, and welcome friends!