Do you ever love him/her because of something? other than love, not a true love?
By leha1512
@leha1512 (81)
Brunei Darussalam
September 14, 2007 1:23am CST
Other than love? Do you ever experienced love someone because of something, examples he/she is sick (doesnt want to hurt her/him - nearly die :( , or you like him because of money, revenge or what so ever. This discussion not going to judge you or blame you. Everyone has their own reasons.
I ever shared my life with a guy beause of he is sick. He was really looking for my attention. I had to take care of him. Sometimes while I was sleeping, he call me, he wants to talk with me because he needs someone to comfort him. If I left him, he would kill himself. After few months, there was someting weird, he was getting annoyed. I'm very close with his's sister. I asked her about him, either his condition getting better or worst. She replied to me "Sick? What sick? He is ok, no problem, he never go to hospital or whatever." Since that, I ignore him, I don't care, is better for him to die than lied to me. But anyway maybe it was my payback also, because I didn't really love him. Just because of he is sick.
4 responses
@archer1811 (1098)
• Philippines
22 Sep 07
I love my husband because of love, he is my true love, he is not reach, not a successful businessman too. I loved him out of nothing at all. I feel that I cannot live without him. Love that want to end till the rest of our lives and nothing else.
@wonderful1 (2075)
• China
19 Sep 07
i loved my ex-boyfriend, and i could marry him, if he didn't work in another city. haha. now he is a really man, he
is willing to undertake any difficulty, but i lost confidence on him. i think i love him before, but now i take him as a relative, and i hope he can live a better life with his wife.
why i will be his girlfriend? he is a kind man, and he likes do anything for me, and at that time i dont' love him, then i begin to know him, and i found there are some good advantages on him, then i began to love him.
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
14 Sep 07
Like the song, "making love out of nothing at all."
I love my friends, my family, because I am close to them. I would love others, it could be for the reason that they deserve it. As for relationships, I wouldn't love someone just because I owe them a favor or ask for someone's attention just because I am sad and lonely.
I believe that love is automatic, it is natural and is felt mutually by both parties.
@wangxiaozhi (116)
• China
14 Sep 07
I think you should tell to him your thinking,love is love,not sympathize.You shouldn't deceice him and yourself.
