Nothing happened! But hubby was going to Kill me!

United States
September 14, 2007 7:37pm CST
Went out monday with a dear friend of mine and looked for a job to do all day. Got late in the evening and I said I didn't want to go home and listen to the drunk hubby so my friend and I stopped at a friends house and nothing happened we just sat tehre and had a few drinks and came back to my house. So when we got here hubby waited to friend leaves and tells me he is going to kill me and my friend when and if he shows up again. So I tell my friend about what hubby tells me and he assures me that he will straighten things out. So I say okay about Wensday hubby and I are at a friends house and the friend hunk guy is there too. He takes my drunk hubby aside and just tells him straight out he won't take hearing that he is going to kill me or him. I didn't hear it all I just know that my hunk is going to speak his peace. And he does just plain flat out tells my drunk if you mess with her your messing with me and if I hear about it you will get your bottom whipped. I was shocked that my hunk really cared that much. Next day my drunk is telling me to straighten things out with him cause he don't want to be beaten up for being drunk and running his mouth. Any way Today Friday I walk over there and speak with my hunk and he just plain tells me if my drunk hurts me he will have to deal with him no two ways about it. I spent the day with hunk and nothing it is mainly business with him. But hoping for more and I really think there can be more. Been walking about 5-6 miles a day I want to be skinnerier for me not for anyone but me. Drunk said he was going to leave and I was hoping but he is still here. How would you react if someone told you to be good to your wife? Would you tuck your tail between your legs and act like you didn't do it or stand up and realize that what you did was wrong? My hunk is a special friend nothing more even though I would like it to be! Are you married to an abuser? Or are you married to someone that treats you like the lady you are?
1 response
@beckish (641)
• United States
15 Sep 07
I would say it is probably time for you to end your marriage if you are interested in someone else and spending time with someone else. If your husband is abusive he needs to get help and that is another good reason for you to get away from him. Good luck.