How do you react when you see a "Baglady" or homeless person?
@littlefranciscan (18327)
United States
September 15, 2007 5:49am CST
How do you react when you see a "baglady" that is some women that lives on the street, pushes a cart around with all her belongins, and wears all cloting at one time?How do you react to the homeless when you see them?
Do you try to help such people? Do you judge them as deserving of their state in life.? What do you think?
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@sharonercastillo (888)
• Philippines
16 Sep 07
yesterday, my daughter and i, and our helper were eating in jollibee, i notice a child by the window, i told my helper to give the ice cream and the fries i was eating to the child...
i know its not that much, but we are not rich, what i have is enough for the family... but whenever we have the upportunity, we help in small ways...
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
16 Sep 07
That is very touching; and I am sure that this child thought you were some angel come from Heaven..giving him such a nice treat.
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@sharonercastillo (888)
• Philippines
16 Sep 07
it was a treat indeed...
i notice him near the entrance eating the treat i gave him..
@annkenline (337)
• United States
16 Sep 07
It makes me so sad. I always think = I wish I could teach this person how to create a better life - BUT they have to want it. Noone is deserving of this and I wonder what happened to get them there.
@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
16 Sep 07
THe same question you ask about their poor state can be turned around..Perhaps you are not homeless; but there probably have been times in your life when you needed a friend..when life dealt some painful blow and someone was there to pick you up.
We should never judge..usually how we judge others will come back to us in some measure or other.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
16 Sep 07
I am very careful not to start asking questions about these folks..Our mind is not capable of answering such quesitons..and usually if we question ..we talk ourselves out of doing the good we should do.
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@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
16 Sep 07
Well, I really feel a squeeze in my chest and wonder how they manage to live... I think they are too strong to face such kind of life... and whatever help I can offer, like foods and money, I will give it... because I know that its not easy. And a little concern from people like us who have homes to keep us safe and warm is a big thing.
@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
16 Sep 07
You are so right.. whatever you can do for them they do appreciate and even if they don't smile..because they have been sad for so long..you can be sure that they really appreciate your thoughtfulness.
@raychill (6525)
• United States
15 Sep 07
Being that I live in a city where the homeless are a common site, I don't usually pay them any attention. A lot of homeless do not like handouts and help and I don't trust the ones who ask for handouts and help. Nor do I judge them because you don't know whether they really are homeless (we've had an expose on the homeless in the past and found out some of them just do it to get extra money) and you don't know why/how they got into the position they are in.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
16 Sep 07
I feel we can never do wrong when we do good..but can fall short when we fail to do good for fear our good is going to the wrong person.
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@punlonnjack (1308)
• United States
16 Sep 07
i feel bad when i see someone in need.i do give them a dollar or two when i can..People dont realize that it could happen to them. Ive been close to being that way myself.Fortunately i was able to prevent it.Some people arnt so lucky in life.they may not have any friends,family or support its very sad.
@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
16 Sep 07
You are right..there is nothing to say that one of us here typing might find us in the same situation .. Not everyone has the mental ability to pull themselves up when they are down.
God bless you for giving to the poor ones.
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@GourdBreaker (490)
• Philippines
15 Sep 07
i feel sorry for them. though i think of ways to help them, it's hard to approach them. i think people like them don't like to be thought of as helpless. but that's reality and they need help. the government should take action on this.
@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
16 Sep 07
How would you say that the government should take action for these unfortunate. people?
I know here where I live..the state closed up an area to these people and sent them to the street.
They were offered free lodging in a close by shelter but many would not go; they had become so use to living outside..
It's truly sad.
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
16 Sep 07
I really feel sorry for them.
I live in the Philippines and there are poor people and those who are homeless and its a very sad site to see.
I feel sorry for the very youg ones because their parents caanot afford to send them to schoola nd aI also pity those very old ones. I just wnder what happens to them when its raining hard and they are there in the streets, cold and freezing.
Im in a situation that I cannot do anything, I feel so helpless and only run lots of things in my head,, if just have money, I will help these people.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
16 Sep 07
Believe it or not, children are the ones that are least affected by their sad lot. Children don't know there should be something else; if they are born into this type of life.
I can imagine the mother who has to lay her child down on hard concrete to sleep or some other unclean thing.
@eachen2002 (889)
• United States
15 Sep 07
I've given food and money to the homeless.I've walked right up to them and handed it too them.I do get a little scared of them sometimes though.Your never sure if they are dangerous.
@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
16 Sep 07
I am sure your guardian angel is watching over you when you do this kindly deed; but you are right in taking some caution.
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@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
15 Sep 07
Hi littlefranciscan! For me, nobody deserves to live in such state whether they did something bad or they just made some bad choices in life. I pity them but sometimes I really don't know how to help them in alleviating their life. All I could do is just offer some food and hoping that they will accept the small offering. I know that they might be starving all the time and I guess, I am happy that I could at least give them a decent meal once in awhile. If I am wealthy or maybe if I am not also hard-up financially I could do more but in the meantime, that is only what I can give. It is just sad to know that our government don't have enough resources to care for these people. Take care and have a ncie day.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
16 Sep 07
Offering food is a beautiful gesture. I would suggest offering food that doesnt spoil..like those in the easy open cans..
Coffee is always a good thing to give too:)
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@dreamy1 (3811)
• United States
15 Sep 07
Where I live you'd be surprised at how many homeless people there are, there are a lot. I live in a major tourist destination but people don't think that they exist here or maybe they are on vacation and don't think about. Sadly because I see so many homeless people I no longer have any reaction at all it's become normal to see them that I don't even pay attention. I've stopped being surprised.
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@shootingstar67 (14)
• United States
15 Sep 07
Where do you live, Hawaii? Oahu is swarming with two things 1) Tourists 2) Homeless people
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@hailie17 (448)
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15 Sep 07
It generally makes me very sad. I don't think you can judge these people because you have no idea what circumstances have put them in their current situation. I will sometimes give them spare change if i have it.
However i am trying to be careful these days as i have discovered a man i used to give to isn't actually homeless!
He used to sit in the shopping centre with his dog, begging. But one day i saw him getting into a BMW all dressed up in smart, brand named clothes! I felt so cheated, i took pity on this man and thought my bits of change could help him buy food etc but he was just scamming everyone!
@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
15 Sep 07
I always try to give to those who are less fortunate as well..
My philosophy is that you will not go wrong doing good and if the recepient is not worthy that rests on his plate not mine.
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@marylouu69 (297)
• United States
15 Sep 07
It breaks my heart to see people in that situation, and people should not judge them, or put them down if anything they should offer to help them. I have help before I saw a man sleeping on steps, and I went out a purchased a burger, fries, and a cup of coffee, along with a bottle of water, and I placed the tray down near him, and he just looked up at me with tears in his eyes, and said thank you ! I said enjoy.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
16 Sep 07
That is so beautiful what you did..and I am sure the tears in his eyes were very genuine.
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@joannagreenwood (11)
• United States
15 Sep 07
I don't really judge people because I know that we could all be in that situation. Broke and alone. I understand that some of the homeless are there on their own free will. I have tried to help a couple that I have seen. Giving them a dollar or two when I can. I am christian and I choose to give in good faith. Its not my business to judge what they do with it. I am by no means religious, but my conscience tells me to help. Give without question. If I don't have any money on me I try to bring them food or water. I would hope the same if I were ever in that situation. No I dont judge. No I don't think anyone deserves that life.
@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
15 Sep 07
Amen ..being Christian means we follow Jesus who said judge not and you shall not be judged; give and you shall receive: good measure and running over.
Each poor beggar that comes to us is Jesus who said "When I was hungry you gave me to eat; when I was thirsty you gave me to drink " "now enter into the house of my Father"
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@meanangel (167)
• United States
15 Sep 07
If I have something to give I give to them. I know that it could happen to any of us. All it takes is a few missed paychecks, an illness, a natural disaster, what have you for us to be one of them. I don't care what they do with the money, food, or clothing I give to them it is not my business. We need to have compassion because we might find ourselves there one day. It breaks my heart. Look at all the people living on the streets in New Orleans a lot of them have jobs and still can not afford a home.