When you get emotionally hurt,Do you want to get even?

United States
September 15, 2007 11:14am CST
I got back at someone recently who hurt me.I really thought he cared for me and found out that he was just using me.I won't say how I got back at him but it felt good to give him what he deserved.
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Pose123
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
15 Sep 07
Hi eachen, I think it's very natural to want to get back at someone who hurts us. I know that has been my experience, but now I always wait until my emotions calm down. After thinking things over in a more rational frame of mind, I realize they really have no power to hurt me unless I give it to them, and I'm able to move on. I find it works much better. Blessings.