how many time have you been married?
By mystic_0318
@mystic_0318 (937)
United States
September 15, 2007 3:36pm CST
Have you been married more than once? Or do you belive in more than one marriage? I have married my hubby twice so I don't really concider that more than one marriage...My mother in law was married 8 times and I always thought that was crazy. I could not imagine being married 8 times...I don't even think I would ever get married again if I devorced my hubby. What about you? What do you think about multiple marriages?
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@zrosado (69)
• United States
15 Sep 07
I have been married only once. I don't agree with re marrying. But if it is due to infidelity I think we have the right to continue our lives. Obviously if infidelity occurred its b/c someone fell out of love. But I wouldn't want to get married again b/c I want my marriage to work out. But in the event I had to b/c of that I would b/c feel I have right to continue with my life.
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@sandgroper1 (629)
• Australia
16 Sep 07
Im ready to get married a second time to someone i am totally inlove with beyond everything we have been together 7 yrs and it almost feels like yesterday that we got together, my 1st was a looser. I knew when i came around the last corner of the road before the driveway of the garden that i was doing the wrong thing getting married to him but i was dressed and everyone was there and i kind of thought that maybe it was just cold feet or wedding jitters.
We had been together 8 yrs with lots of dramas and pain/tears and then decided to get married as sort of a last ditch effort and hope that marriage would hold us together. He did start to get his act together but it wasnt fast enough for me and i had lost all respect for him and wasnt inlove with him anymore 5 yrs of marriage it was all over.
I think if you love the person with the whole of your being then get married, but people that do it more than 3-4 times i think they are doing it because they are searching for something (that needs to be found within) and are disalousioned when it dosnt happen or they dont get it so they move on to the next. Or they like the felling of a new relationship and when that wears of and you get into normal everyday life they dont like it and move on to the next to start again.
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