"The MORE you try to FORGET... The MORE it HURTS..."

@zexoel (80)
Philippines
September 15, 2007 9:55pm CST
"The More you try to Forget.. The More it Hurts.." Have you ever been inlove and experience pain and heartaches on it?? Do you agree on the quotation above??? Let me hear from your experience.. Thank You!
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3 responses
• Malaysia
16 Sep 07
Yes so many times in my life...I think more than hundred of it. I made...I broke...I made ...I broke. and yes I agree with your words of declaration about; "The MORE you try to FORGET... The MORE it HURTS..." because you put "TRY". Don't TRY but just forget it. OK now make it this way; "The MORE I FORGET... The MORE my NEW COMERS"
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• Malaysia
16 Sep 07
New Frenz!!!
@zexoel (80)
• Philippines
16 Sep 07
How??? Are you making frends when you are sad and upset?? How can you manage your feelings that well??
@zexoel (80)
• Philippines
16 Sep 07
New Comers?? What do you mean New comers??
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
16 Sep 07
If one has a tendency to take everything serious, then your quote is valid. As far as I am concerned, the more I forget and forgive, less it hurts. Because to forget and forgive is to get rid of the stuff from my mind. Like computer memory, he should get rid of unwanted and undesirable stuff. Then only the functioniing will bebetter.
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@zexoel (80)
• Philippines
16 Sep 07
But i guess.. Forgetting things that are really vital in your life is difficult.. Our Brain is different to a computer memory.. In computer, if we want to delete files,, important or not.. that is possible.. But in reality of life.. we cant dictate ourselves.. you have a good point.. but i guess not all people has the gift of easily getting rid of undesirable stuff you are referring to.. Thank you for your response...
• Philippines
16 Sep 07
well if you are trying to really forget the person then i must admit that would hurt a lot. But if you try to just live you're life and not try to be attached to him or her again then thats the real thing. The common error of other persons is when they really try to forget somebody that they stress themselves into. They drink alchoholics and try to sleep it over but then it comes back again. The only effective thing you can do is just live a life try to make yourself busy and be happy with you're life.
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@zexoel (80)
• Philippines
16 Sep 07
Thank you for your response.. have you ever been in love and hurt? what if you really love the one who hurt you? what coping mechanism do you use to overcome the sadness??