People Over 80

@worldwise1 (14885)
United States
September 16, 2007 7:39pm CST
There was an interesting feature on CBS's Sunday Morning today. It had to do with people who had lived into their 80s and their views on life. It was informative, but I came away with the feeling that the story was one-sided. What bothered me about it was the fact that the interviewees were all high-profile, wealthy and notable people. I think it would have been a much better piece had they interviewed some oldesters of the ordinary type. After all, it isn't very hard to enjoy life into your 80s when you have money and power at your disposal.
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
17 Sep 07
To quote you...."it isn't very hard to enjoy life into your 80s when you have money and power at your disposal. .." How true this is. What about many senior citizens that are struggling to live a quality life as they get older? I've heard so many stories of how older people struggle to have adequate food or be able to afford their medicines...they have to balance, and ask themselves...do I use money for food or medicine...So many people are under the delusion that Medicare can provide medical costs...nope...so many think that they can get food stamps...nope...and if they do get food stamps it might only be a few bucks worth...And again, so many think that Social Security will be adequate for their needs..nope again. You're right, it sounds like that report was very one-sided showing only comfortably set older people which are the minority as opposed to the majority that are struggling for a quality of life as they get older
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
17 Sep 07
Yes, you are right, pyewacket. I have seen it up close and personally by watching my mother struggle to pay her Medicare spenddown every other month because she couldn't afford to pay for it every month. She was constantly worried that she would fall ill during one of the "off" months when she could not afford to pay. The amount of food stamps she received wouldn't feed her for a week-let alone a month.
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@anniepa (27955)
• United States
17 Sep 07
How true! They should talk to some of the older people who have to make a choice between taking their medicine or heating their homes. Life can certainly still be rewarding well into the eighties and beyond but way too many of our older citizens can't afford even the most simple pleasures. Of course, no one would want to interview them because it's a reminder of how we have failed our older generation in many ways. Great topic! Annie
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
17 Sep 07
Thank you, anniepa. The problems of the middle and low-income elderly are still being swept under the rug. I suppose there isn't much glamor in the lives of ordinary oldsters who can't compare with the likes of Hugh Heffner, Norman Lear,etc.
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@Aurone (4755)
• United States
17 Sep 07
I didn't see that feature but I agree it would have been a much more complete piece if they had interviewed some normal people as well. Life at 80 can be hard for those with limited income. Some cannot afford both food and medicine. It is a very sad thing.
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
18 Sep 07
Yes, Aurone, it was a very one-sided piece. Everyone knows the rich are different.
@wisedragon (2325)
• Philippines
17 Sep 07
elderly - let's take care of our elderly. some day we will be like them
That would be one-sided indeed. I mean, what percentage of the population is wealthy anyway? A greater number of people have to worry about how to pay their bills. I really feel for the elderly. My parents themselves are starting to get old and I hope I can take good care of them. Let's take care of our elderly. Some day we will be like them.
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
17 Sep 07
Any parent would be proud to have you, wisedragon. It is true that our elderly do not receive the care and attention they should. As one who is getting on in age myself, I pray that I don't come down with a serious illness and have to be a burden on anyone. I would rather just go quickly.
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@creematee (2810)
• United States
17 Sep 07
I saw this too. I guess there might have been a point they were trying to make... use your age/money wisely, so you can be old, too! (I'm just joking.) I agree that it would have been better to have some "normal" people over 80. I also saw a piece somewhere that "60" is the new 20. I thought it was 50--maybe that was 10 years ago. :) Oh well, someday I'll be 20 again. LOL
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@creematee (2810)
• United States
18 Sep 07
Forgive me, worldwise, I didn't mean to offend. I agree that I don't think I'd like to switch places with the elderly. Goodness knows I'll get there before I'm ready. (and I'm going to fight it every step of the way!) The 60 being the new "20" I think is directed at fashion magazines that are using "older" (forgive the term) models instead of the just-out-of-high-school types. I think people are beautiful at any age--20, 30, 150! :)
@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
18 Sep 07
I don't think anyone would trade places with an elderly person, creematee, if they were given the chance, but regular people should have been included in that story. And, believe me, I am 61 and don't feel anywhere near 20!
@mummymo (23706)
17 Sep 07
I couldn't agree more sweety! My Grandmother is 83 - she has had 7 children and raised 9 )including myself whom she adopted!) , she has seen 2 of her children die, lived through WW2 and many hard times! She is a woman of dignity, strength and courage and many people could learn a lot from someone like her! xxx
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
18 Sep 07
Older people have so much to share, mummymo, if someone would just take the time and sit down and talk with them. I miss my mother so much because we would sit and talk on the phone for a couple of hours about things she remembered from her youth. I will never forget these things.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
21 Sep 07
Hi sweetie!! I feel money is not everything in life but it certainly gives us a power to win the comfort and luxury and all it takes to make living comfortable. This has been true for all ages and to be specific for the octogenarian, i feel, its same with them as well. Certainly, the show you are talking about is restricted to a stratum of the society and doesn't give a true picture of society in general. Thanks for a very thoughtful topic.
@ghazal2k5 (920)
• India
17 Sep 07
Very true! They got all the money and power to enjoy a very good old age. They should interview some ordinary old people. What problems they are facing in this age? They spend all their lives and money to raise their kids and now if their kids take care of them or not. There are many things unsaid in the mind of an 80 year old person. They should dig it out.
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
18 Sep 07
That is a big part of the problem, ghazal, the elderly are so often relegated to the background to be neither seen nor heard. I feel that they are entitled to live their days out in some type of decency. They should not have to choose between their medications or food; heat or freezing.
@sigma77 (5383)
• United States
20 Sep 07
Good point. I would say that health would be the most important thing to have when you reach 80. You are so right about how many of these kind of shows are one-sided.
• United States
17 Sep 07
My Grandmother just turned 85, and is still going strong after a long life, filled with ups and downs, good times and bad. She has recently had some health issues, and in this bad economy, she is living off of her social security check, which isn't enough. She lives here with my father and other family members, so she is close to our family needless to say. After all these years, she has a routine, a core group of friends, and continues to mentor people who look up to her. She is generally happy because she is faithful, smart, and still has a social life. She also takes great care of her health, despite health issues she's had as she's aged. Anyway, thought I'd put in my two cents!
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
18 Sep 07
It's very good to hear that your grandmother is still enjoying relatively good health, cc. This is not so with a lot of the elderly, however. I would even go so far as to speculate that many more than half of them have huge medical expenses. Most live on some type of pension or SS, and the money is rarely enough to go around. Some do not have close family members to help them out with bills and medicines.
@pismeof (855)
• United States
17 Sep 07
How true that is Wise1,I never got to see the program but unless one has a genetic disease I do think the privileged can be a bit more pampered and have a much better health plan than the average joe. There outlook for their future has always got to help when your rolling in dough.
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
18 Sep 07
Yes, pismeof, I daresay that their outlooks on life would be much dimmer if they were forced to live on the scant amount of money that most of the elderly have to survive on.
• India
7 Oct 07
ya u r right at the age of 80 if they dont have power and money it is very hard to survive and people at that stage dont want to take others help
@MisterPlus (1915)
• Philippines
17 Sep 07
We people are living in different life's standards and you are right they must have interviewed old people from different class.
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• China
17 Sep 07
people over 80 are poor,we must take care of them ,no matter they treat us badly.
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