Are monthsaries important?
By diannebcrs
@diannebcrs (1549)
Philippines
September 17, 2007 3:38am CST
Ok. I've known about anniversaries... But I always notice my friends having this "monthsaries" (they call it) with their boyfriends. Every month there's celebration or something like that and there's supposed to be flowers and gifts and mushy stuff...
But I can't judge them though. I've never been into a committed relationship. What do you guys think?
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6 responses
@cefaz_21 (2596)
• Philippines
17 Sep 07
I had a boyfriend before who is very much into anniversraries, he'll usually give me letters or a greet me every monthsaries..I'm just so mazed on how he remember dates like that..but I got the answer.We broke up after I learned that all through out the relationship he is cheating on me..
So you see,it realy is not abig deal for me,now mu husband is not good on remembering anniversaried but everyday of his life I ammade sure of his deep love and committment for me.
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@diannebcrs (1549)
• Philippines
17 Sep 07
That's really sweet of your husband. I also don't mind if my husband yet to come won't remember monthsaries or anniversaries as long as everyday of my life, he shows me his love for me.
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@ayessa (1583)
• Philippines
19 May 08
Some couples do really give importance to monthsaries but for myself it is not a big deal to celebrate. If ever me and my husband had time and some extra money we do celebrate monthsries since it is one way to look back at what we had before, how we became lover, etc. But since most of the time we never gave that much importance on it. But we still do remember to greet one another on our monthsaries. We even call it "talk time" since during our monthsaries we always had time to talk on what are the problems and the ways to further improve our relationship. So its just the way of how you will going to celebrate your monthsary.
@roniroxas (10559)
• Philippines
18 Sep 07
well i think it is cute.... hahaha coming from a 37 year old woman hahaha.
well counting how many months has passed by is cool (for me) its like a sucess when you reach 1 year. but after a year counting the months is no longer cute.
its like also with my kids.... when i gave birth to them every month since the delivery we celebrate... so its monthsary. we cook spagetti and buy cake and ice cream.
so for me its really cute to count the months passing by whether it is for relationship or new born kids
@kat_princess (1470)
• Philippines
17 Sep 07
To me, monthsaries are important.Me and my boy celebrate our monthsaries though there are a few monthsaries that we quarrel but in a while,we're ok again.
@kevsgirlalways (5883)
• Malaysia
21 Sep 07
Nope, I don’t celebrate monthsaries at all. In fact the date always slipped my mind, it’s like any other day. I only celebrate anniversaries, but nothing grand. We don’t bother to buy gifts anymore to celebrate this. Lol. Just a simple yet nice dinner.
@busta1baby (1230)
• United States
19 May 08
i think to some ppl each month they are together it is just such an excitement they do things...lol...
as of today me and my baby have been together 9 months...and it is very exciting...but we aren't do n anything but its just a good feeling to kno im still with the guy i love soo very much
