Am I just ruining their realationship?
By mustafa9190
@mustafa9190 (118)
Philippines
September 17, 2007 5:02am CST
i got two friends who is in a realationship. My Friend girl is starting to tell some baggages with her life. She starts to have some problems with this baggages. I tried to ask what his boy friend has said about it? Then I heard the these words " I think he is not listening to me. " ... I never thought that i would heard those words. I tried to deffend his boy friend because he is also my friend. But still ithink she is still have a douth to him. After that day he had knew that I was talking to her and now he is startinfg to think that he is useless to her. oh man what am I going to do ? I tried to make a way to remove their douths to each other... they are my friend I can't bear to see them bieng wrecked with this problem...
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2 responses
@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
18 Sep 07
I think the best that you can do is to disappear from your friend for a while... it seem that the boyfriend si becoming insecure since the girl friend is coming to you for advice... so try to be out or reach for a couple of days then after that it will be like nothing happened...
@cefaz_21 (2596)
• Philippines
18 Sep 07
Hi! If I may ask, why did you ask if you were ruining thier relationship? Is your friend (boy) jealous that you talked about this with his girlfriend? If so,and you keep on talking to the girl,you might be ruining thier relationship of course which you do not intend to do. I understand that you are there to help them.
I guess you should ask them both to talk and discuss things with thier selves, fix what can be fix,if not then let them seperate in good terms where in you all can still be good friends.
@mustafa9190 (118)
• Philippines
19 Sep 07
Both of them are my friends.. and thanks for the advice I think i 'll try to make them to talk to each other
