Unhappy with married life? Have you tried looking for someone else?
By ireneortiz
@ireneortiz (272)
Philippines
September 17, 2007 6:19am CST
I knew lots of couples ending up in separation because they are no longer happy with their married life and relationship and they begun looking for someone else that they feel will complete them again. I dont know if this should really be the case because for me if you are unhappy with your marriage then do something to make you happy again specially if you have children. Looking for someone else is not the solution, if you can try to talk things over and find out what could be wrong then that should be the first thing to do that to escape to the problem. You, what is your comment on this?
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4 responses
@eunixia (387)
• Philippines
17 Sep 07
hi ireneortiz,
I am happy with my married life. Me and my husband go through with some changes during our first year but separation is not a solution nor an answer to escape the trials and obstacles that we had experience. Couples should embrace all the indifferences and not be so suspicious. Have always a lot of patience and love.
it's me,
eunixia
@maia0129 (91)
• Philippines
17 Sep 07
You're absolutely right! Looking for someone else is definitely not the solution to make your unhappy state in your married life a happy one. I agree with you when you said that one should do something (aside from looking for someone else) to make him/her happy again. It is important to think first of the children's welfare than to only think of one's own happiness. I believe that what one parent does can surely affect his/her children's life one way or the other.
@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
17 Sep 07
I agree with you... I understand that most family will end up with some problems or dislike each other. but it will never change with your new couples either, if you can't take care of this one how could you be good on the next one? My husband and I are always figure out what went wrong or what should we do to be make us better? I know he acts crazy sometimes but you know they have one of those day too. So, we have to give each other a lot of time of this.... separate or divorce is not an idea to solve family problem.
