What is the best way to say sorry ?
By langara123
@langara123 (887)
India
5 responses
@mansha (6298)
• India
26 Oct 07
I think with me flowers would always work. Its the hardest word to say so I don't mind if the other person just never verbally says it but it would be nice if he can just deliver flowers to me personally - I am an easy person when it comes to forgiving you just have to know how to woe me though.
@dhedows118 (891)
• Philippines
18 Sep 07
Any relation is bound to have its highs and lows. Sometimes the lows are so low that you end up in a fight. The agony of sulking and being away from your partner is worse than going to hell. YOu seem to be blank about how to say sorry. Patching up after a fight has never been so difficult.
Though it may seem odd at first, saying sorry to a loved one has its own benefits. You become more understanding and more tolerant of each other. You can tackle those petty issues that keep cropping up between the two of you without making a big fuss about it. Given below are a few tips to make it even more genuine and romantic.
-Make sure you don't make a big fuss about saying sorry. It is just one word and remember, it can either make or break your relationship.
-Say it with flowers and anything that your partner loves. If she loves dancing, take her out for a slow dance and say you are sorry while she is dancing in your arms. If he loves bowling, go out for a game together and tell him when he has finished striking all pins that you are sorry.
-Never start arguing as to who started the fight first. No use looking back on something that is just not worth. Else, you will be back on square one.
-Make sure you are genuinely sorry for your mistakes. Don't try to fake up feelings just for the heck of it. Remember, it could happen to you too someday.
-Value your partner. Learn to respect his/her feelings and don't do things to hurt him/her deliberately.
@archer1811 (1098)
• Philippines
18 Sep 07
I think the best way to say sorry to the person you harmed is to tell her/him and truly accept the mistake you've done, talk to that someone sincerely. Honesty and sincerity is a must.
@Philxav (733)
• Malaysia
18 Sep 07
You really want to mean it from your heart that you were wrong and want to ask forgiveness from him or her.. well the best thing to do.. face him or her directly and let them know your mistakes.. and ask for their apology.. shake hands ok if they are someone close to you.. give them a kiss or hold their hands.. show them you really care and need them.