Chatting friend
By vellaiappa
@vellaiappa (52)
India
September 18, 2007 12:17am CST
I got one friend through chatting two months before. I just like to chat with her. We discussed about money making sites like mylot etc. I gave her my phone number and one day she made a call and talked. I have a doubt without knowing our faces each other how can friendship be developed. I like her very much but her side i dont know. I want to be a friend of her for ever. Because i like friendship very much. Anybody had such experience like me?
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3 responses
@kaplya (1578)
• India
19 Sep 07
it's what happening everyday on internet:) i too have some such friends and particularly one whom i really like and would never want to lose his friendship. it's couple of years since i met him online. as for your case i think it's too early to say anything, if you are growing romantic feelings towards her. you should just let the things go the way they are going. things would start to take a shape after sometime and then you would know it without even trying that what you should do or which way you want to go. and for seeing each other's faces, why hurrying so much you can well ask for her photo or both of you can use webcams. though i guess she won't mind meeting you as it was she who called so this shows she is interested in keeping friendship with you as well:)
@kaplya (1578)
• India
20 Sep 07
oh that's quite in a strange stage right now. sometimes people become afraid after getting too intimate with somebody, sometimes they feel there's nothing left to talk about and sometimes they lose interest.i guess there's some reason of this kind here though we can't be sure it could also be she is having some personal problems and don't want to talk about it or to contact anybody. does she get offline after brief chat or she just kind of ignores you?
whatever reason is there i don't think you should just drop this.seems you really care for this friendship and in this case it's important that you be frank about this to her. i would suggest you to write her a mail. it depends on the level of your friendship that what you write in the mail. just ask her if everything is okay in her life and that you do miss old talks with her and that you want to be a real friend of her. this would help you relieve yourself of the grief you are right now going through and make the things clear. and you can make any firm decision after that without feeling guilty. my best wishes for you!:)
@vellaiappa (52)
• India
20 Sep 07
Thanks a lot kaplya, i just now sent a mail to her after seeing your response. Thanks.
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@vellaiappa (52)
• India
20 Sep 07
Thanks Kaplya. You are maintaining online friendship more than 2 years, great. You are correct i may be in a hurry. See no romantic feelings or expressions from me towards her, just friendship. But now im in a confused stage,bcz whenever i tried to chat with her, she just say a "hi" then "how are you" then "ok bye take care". Whats all this. Whether she likes my friendship or not? Shall i continue chatting with her or just drop her friendship?
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@ashikkalam (187)
• India
18 Sep 07
Having intimate online friends is perfectly normal,my friend.The one thing you love about online friends is you can talk out even your most intimate secrets and still be protected by the cloak of anonymity.Talking to someone online is very different from real life in the sense..most people are a lot more comfortable doing it online because of the indirectness involved.
And some people may feel very close to their online buddies,which is normal.
Talk to her more and make your friendship stronger.And if you ever get a chance to meet her in person do so,it will help a lot in getting know each other.
@ashikkalam (187)
• India
19 Sep 07
it was my pleasure.good luck to you and your friend.
have a nice day.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
20 Sep 07
its very natuaral nowadys.
I have heard many of my friends fell in love
with internet friends.
It sometime really intimate as one you see everyday.
