Who do you confide in most?

@dbhattji (2506)
India
September 18, 2007 3:00am CST
Who would you share your secrets and wishes with - friend, partner, parents or siblings?
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@gesell03 (173)
• Philippines
18 Sep 07
i mostly confide my secrets with strangers, emails, or through texting at first i thought that is the right way to do it, and that im am being fulfilled somehow but lately it has been a burden to me to acknowledge the fact that i do feel much alone because of this and i have stopped texting and im on the process of trying to open up the chance for real friends who would listen to me.
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@dbhattji (2506)
• India
18 Sep 07
That is cool, never thought of that angle. thanks for being so frank.
@bowtieguy (5915)
• United States
21 Sep 07
I guess I confide the most with my sons, especially my oldest William, he is a good listener and gives great advice.
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@dbhattji (2506)
• India
21 Sep 07
Glad to know that you have such good children.
• India
18 Sep 07
i would confide more in my parents as they have brought me up so far and they are the ones whom you can trust blindly( at least 90%).but that is not possible in other cases as todays' world is of greed ,where trust is just 10%.so where you will lose @ 90% or @10% ,you better decide.
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
18 Sep 07
I would share my secrets with my husband the most. I married my best friend, so he usually understands. I can't really think of anything I couldn't tell my husband.
@cici6880 (656)
• China
18 Sep 07
I'll share my secrets with my best friends but the persom who I confide most is my father.
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@lucy0713 (32)
• China
18 Sep 07
I have many secrets.And they could be shared with my boyfriend except one which I hadn't told anyone.Do you have any secrets that havn't been shared with other?
• India
21 Sep 07
hello dbhattji, i would like to answer your question in parts.its difficult for me to give the credit to one person only.because with my age,the person whom i confide in changes. when i was a kid,i used to share everything with my mom.even if i had some question poking into my mind,i will get it clarified by her.then when i became a teenager,i started sharing them with my friends.but soon i realized that i am inviting trouble for me.i should share it with only one person whom i can call my best friend and who will understand my problems and keep it to himself. after that i got my best friend,with whom i shared everything.he then got promoted to my boyfriend and now he is my fiance.soon he will be my husband.and i think at this point he is the only person in whom i can confide and share my secrets and wishes.he very well understands me and supports me. and whom do you confide in dbhattji?you haven't said about that.
@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
18 Sep 07
Hello there. I confide in my pooh bear soft toys and God. Every night, during my quiet time, I will share with God all my feelings. I will share happy and unhappy things with God. As for my friends and family, I only share with them the good things. I don't usually share the unhappy things as I do not wish to make them unhappy too.
@dbhattji (2506)
• India
25 Sep 07
Great idea, so all your secrets are safe with Pooh.
@sr0415 (1140)
• Philippines
19 Sep 07
Hi dbhattji! :) I share my secrets to my friends and family. Sometimes, there are things I cannot tell to my family, so I share it to my friends because they can understand better than my family. However, there are also personal issues that I share to my family because they can accept them and understand what I'm going through rather than my friends. So, sharing secrets and other personal talks also depend on to whom you are comfortable sharing them with. :)