i have no curves, flat body, flat chest and black

Don't you worry about a thing. You are beautiful, and don't listen to the media! Be thankful, I have too much of everything, lol. No one is ever happy with what they have...it's just a fact of life. Looks aren't everything, either. You will meet someone who loves you for everything that you are, and everything that you aren't...and it ALWAYS happens when you least expect it. I know it's such a cliche, but so true. Take care, and keep your chin up!

I honestly think everyone is wrong telling you to work out and change.. someone will find you to love you for who you are.. someone will love your flatness.. just like i found someone who loves my fatness.. lol girl dont worry your prince charming will come soon and just dont go looking for him cause thats when you will find all the jerks.. .. please be happy with what you got, things could always be worse.. i mean you have all your teeth right? and you walk with two legs.. cheer up girl .. life is only begining for you

I was the same way until my 40s: no curves, flat body, flat chest, but white. But you know what, when you find someone who loves you, they love you the way you are! I was 18 when I had my first date! I had no shape at all and, if you want to see, I can post a photo showing you. Don't worry, good things come to those who wait...so many of my friends were dating and married before me...and divorced! I have been married to the same man for 34 years...so didn't I end up better off in the long run? Like you, I thought I would never date. Be patient, sweetie, it will all work out!

Isn't it amazing how we are never happy w/ourselves? You complain about having no curves, flat body, flat chest and I complain about having too many curves, Huge chest the only thing that is flat on my body is my butt, which is wierd because I have curves on the rest of my body. When true love finds you, it is not going to matter on how you see yourself but on how he sees you. If he loves you then he will love you for who you are and he will love the way you look too. I am telling you from experience.

looks are not every thing dating is not life whole heartedly you love people surroundings have a pure heart. hope is left to mankind one day a prince will come to you

Try working out with weights that will help you get more shape and definition.

at least you don't have an STD...that would suck royally..

You are rare, take advantage of that.

You want to date someone who accepts you just how you are! You're beautiful and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Being Black is not a curse. Furthermore you can work to improve the flat body. and thanks to modern medical technology, you can get boobies. so basically you have no problem. at least not that I can see.

you work on being the best person you can be for now and your body will be ready when the time comes.and then you'll have the body and the best personaility that any one could ever want

cheer up, is not end of the world. there will be somebody out there waiting for you,dont forget your inner beauty.

Trust me when I say that everyone feels like this. 2 years ago, I felt the same way. I was 19 years old and I'd never been on a date. I felt that I was too fat, and too ugly for any guy. I told myself that I was too shy, no one would ever want to date me because I was a freak. But now I have been happily married for a year to a wonderful man who thinks the world of me and who really thinks I am beautiful just the way I am. So as hard as it may be, don't despair! You will find someone who loves you for you.

I don't know how old you are. You sound young.Women mature physically until they are 21. Besides, you are who you are, and people will recognize you for who you are inside. If you are concerned about the physical. Well, they have push up bras or padded bras. You can wear clothes to conceal areas like the waste line. So what if you are black? That isn't an issue. Don't compare yourself to anyone. Just be you. Let your inner beauty shine. I know you have it..don't deny it. Get involved with an outside activity that you enjoy. Dancing, art, sports, something where you will be open to meet more people. The right person will come along and look past the outside exterior. For now, love yourself as you are. God created you, and you are beautiful in His eyes.

How old are you because my girlfriend had no shape either until she got 20. You also need to get some chicken in you and some cornbread. Good down south soul food always does the trick is what my grandma always says.

Looks arent everything. The greatest looking people are usually jerks. Just be a great person and things will work out. If you are truly depressed I would suggest seeking professional help. Also ask friends to set u up and get out and meet new people. Good luck.

cheer up, is not end of the world. there will be somebody out there waiting for you,dont forget your inner beauty.

cheer up, is not end of the world. there will be somebody out there waiting for you,dont forget your inner beauty.

cheer up, is not end of the world. there will be somebody out there waiting for you,dont forget your inner beauty.

cheer up, is not end of the world. there will be somebody out there waiting for you,dont forget your inner beauty.