Who says a sorry first?

well if i know im RIGHT im not usually fast to apologize but.. when im NOT i am!! I will be the first to say im sorry but if hubby did something *wrong* he usually knows it and will say sorry fast or hell take a bit of time to figure out how to say it so i know he means it!! with the kids well they arent so fast to apologise to eachother of course lol but if we happen to be wrong in something with them then we will say sorry and usually make up for it!! There are times when were both being so stubborn tho and untill we are PROVEN wrong only then will we say it!! lol lol all so silly!! lol

For me, i think you don't have to change that, anyway thats for the good reason too. I think it takes two to tango, it doesn't matter who says first the important is one must say sorry and must forgive.

I think you need to change that. The person that should apologize is the person who is wrong. If I do something wrong, I apologize to my husband. If he does something wrong, he apologizes to me. If we both have fault in it, we both apologize. I would never apologize for something that isn't my fault and I don't expect anyone else to apologize to me when what happened wasn't their fault. It's not right.

Whenever my hubby and I fight its always me to apoligize first. I think he has on apoligized to me once.

I am also the person who says the sorry first,I often apoligize no matter the fault is him/fer or not,because these persons ate all my loved mone, I don't want they are hurt.The only thing I want is that they can keep happy all the time and enjoy life.

If I know I wronged the person, I will say "sorry" first. If its the other person's fault, I just hope and pray that he/she soon starts to patch things up :)

My father allways says that who make first apology are persions with big hearts.So say first sorry wether u made mistack or not and gain the heart of others.

i think the one with the fault should say sorry first. me and my husband argue a lot especially these days when i am so sensitive and moody because of the pregnancy. i usually sulk in one corner and veer away. and he comes and hugs to say sorry. i say sorry too if i am at fault. talk it out. there are always two sides to every story. it might interest you to know that he has a point too and that you need to compromise. marriage is a constant understanding. =)

I used to say sorry a lot in the past but I am so over it now. My husband and I are so stuborn so most times when we have a fight its a drop of water turned into an ocean sort of thing, when you end up thinking what the .... just happen here. In those cases its not so much as saying sorry but after some time we sort of forget what happen and start talking to each other. I do say sorry when I trully think I was wrong and he deserves it him on the other hand will start acting like a cat trying to hug me and kiss me and all that and when I ask him if he knows why I am upset he says sorry (if he thinks that I was right) if not he says Fine than be like that.... oh my god it sounds like two 5 year old kids when you put it in writhing :)))))

I never say sorry. Probably just because I'm hard headed. But I always make him say sorry first. Unless, I know I'm really in the wrong. Then after I cool down I will apoligize. But I think honestly, the person who is in the wrong should say sorry first. And usually in the middle of an argument a person knows if they are wrong or not. Weather or not they want to admit it.